ANSWERS: 4
  • End it.Then look for another job, but don't be surprised if he gives a negative report if a prospective employer of yours contacts him. In the future, never, ever, date the boss.
  • Don't end it with him until you have another offer from another job. It is not worth the hassle of going through a break up and looking for a job at the same time. He obviously isnt interested in seriously dating you since he has put unreasonable demands on you. If you think he is bluffing that is one thing. But if he is not bluffing, he is a complete jerk and cry baby. A mature man will recognize the problems with dating a subordinate at work and will help you deal with this in a supportive way. He pretty much just wants to be able to keep having sex with you. I wouldn't be suprised if he took negative actions against you after you ended it with him. If so, that is sexual harassment "quid pro quo" and you should be documenting his negative actions. Write a journal or emails documenting that you ended it and he took revenge.
  • If he's giving you ultimatums now and you accede, what do you think life will be like after that. Looks like control issues to me. I'd get another job and then kiss him goodbye. The advice from both Pogster and Ananymous was all good. I just wanted to add that control thing because, from a man's point of view, if you go for that, your on his hook and he is already a control type of person or he wouldn't be dating his employee.
  • Ha ha..there's nothing like sleeping one way's to the top

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