ANSWERS: 7
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Let it go. If he isnt cheating on you with her, or spending any time with her, then let it go, because all you are gonna do is make things worse between the two of you as far as trust in each other goes. Only if he took that step and did cheat on you with her, then you have other issues to think about. It sounds as if to me you dont trust him already, and if that is the type of marriage you have, then there are other issues that you need to attend to.
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It's not appropriate at all. He didn't stop communication - regardless of how it was done or whatever lameass justification he has. Is wishing her 'happy birthday' more important than your peace of mind and trust???
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If all he did was wish her a "Happy Birthday", I honestly don't see a problem. I wish people a "Happy Birthday", too, even if I rarely talk to them. Does that mean I'm a bad person?
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Sending someone a happy birthday email is pretty benign but I can understand your sensitivity. Reiterate that the terms are zero communication with this individual.
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I know that this question is from March of this year. Hope everything is going okay for you. If your husband has continued to do this I have a solution for you. Start having male friends call your house and walk into another room each time they call. Do it..til it hurts. When he complains tell him you asked him to stop communicating with this woman and he hasn't. All bets are off when someone doesn't comply with your wishes. And they don't think enough of you to do so. If your marriage vows had forsaking all others in it...you need to remind him of that too. And always remember that what's good for the goose is good for the gander. And for any woman out there...in AB land, never put up with shit for one moment with a man. Ever!
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Is she the only person he ever sent this to? Or, does he send them out to friends regularly? If the former, talk to him about it, if the latter, don't react. Just mention it.
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He is hurting your feelings on purpose, Do what ever you have too!
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