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Tell him you are ignoring him and wish to go your separate ways.
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avoid him like the plague - he needs to get a life, Hes no right to dictate to you about anything!
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Probably something happened on his end that you may not know about and he is grasping at your lifeline. I would not be available.
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If you genuinely do not wish to speak with him regularly, you need to be forthright and just tell him. You are not involved anymore. Unless you were friends before you dated or developed a great friendship afterwards, there really is no reason to make yourself worry about HIS needs. Be kind, but be clear. Tell him you are not ignoring him, you just don't feel comfortable talking with him. Set a perameter. If you want to leave the door open, tell him you don't mind hearing from him every once in a while, but you would rather move on from your relationship. If you don't want to hear from him any more at all, ask him to stop contacting you.
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tell him how to feel tell him you feel uncomfortable talking to him cause you still have feelings for him.. that your not ignoring him but you need time to sort things in your head to make things more comfortable when you do talk...
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There is NO reason, whatsoever, that you are required to continue speaking with your ex. Don't let him give you a guilt trip. Ignore his calls and he will get the hint eventually. You are no longer part of his life. Remember that YOU are in control of your life.
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Hold your head high, breath deep, relax, forget about yesterday's business and get on with being yourself again. Let his memory wash away in time as flotsam upon the waves.
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