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  • Really it depends on the situation, I hate to say this but, were you defending yourself? Or was he defending himself? Which one jumped on the other and attacked? Depending on that, if you were to attack him and he defended himself, the situation would still have to be thought out, simply because of the fight in the first place, not only that but you'd have to look at yourself closely. However, if he attacked you and jumped on you, than leave him, theres no excuse to get physical in any arguments with a loved one.
  • Keep a close eye on this situation and DO NOT let it escalate! It sounds like, from your question, that HE was the one who started the rough stuff, so, be very careful! Hopefully, it was just the alcohol, and it freaked him out as much as you. You might try a little less alcohol, too, so you may not get close to the same TYPE of situation again. Good luck!
  • You'd should nip this in the bud immediately to address how better to handle alcohol and anger issues. If you two can't work it out on your own, counseling might be required. This has to stop here and now.
  • Did you follow up with make-up sex? Often that is the reaon that people get into arguments. The make-up sex is just toooo gooood.
  • I have this with my bf too. But I am never intoxicated...he has been at times, this happens to us alot. Sometimes I get so scared that one of us could actually do some serious damage. One time he had me pinned against the wall and i kicked him off he grabbed my leg and slammed me down on the ground...what if I had landed on something. I want to sort it out but he doesnt want to go to counselling...I suggest that you seek couples counselling. GOOD LUCK

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