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  • So much of that depends on what your history with him is. Would need more information. Have there been previous situations like this? Has there ever been cheating? Had you told him you needed him home? Is there generally trust and respect between the two of you? Is it generally a good relationship? In my case, I might have encouraged him to stay and have fun with his friends, but my circumstances aren't your circumstances;)
  • Has he been ignoring you for a while now? If so, I think it's wrong for him to ignore you. If there is a problem, regardless of whether he is mad at you, he should communicate with you. If this was recent, perhaps you should give him some time to cool it. I don't think that you are wrong because we all have different requirements of our partners, but it's something that you should work out with him. If you are not okay with him staying out all night and he is, then you both should talk about it and find some compromise.
  • I assume that you guys dont have a bad history based on your comment to Penguin. Honestly, you were wrong in telling him no. He is an adult and can make his own mind up. his asking your permission was really rhetorical and just being polite. The fastest way to lose a good man is to try to control him, tell him that he can't hang with the boys. If you are jealous that he's out and you're home why don't you go out with your girlfriends and get a drink? I doubt hes doing anything wrong.

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