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  • thats hard. i know how you feel. isnt there another-other job out there he can take that he would like as well or better than the one you asked him to leave, couldnt he keep looking? if there isn't then maybe it isnt the job he misses. or you can let him go back to the original job, either you trust him or you dont. and if you dont think you can then you guys might want to think about if the problem is really work-related or if its something coming from somewhere else. i similarly once asked my bf to freeze out an ex. it left me more insecure in the relationship than i was to begin with. (fortunately, we worked things out and are still happily together). i figured either i trust him or i dont, and i should act accordingly, not expect him to change to suit my neurosies.

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