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  • Mainly money and smarts. I had my first child at 19. Didn't know my butt from a hole in the ground. First year in college. Broke. Single. This first son and I were on welfare and subjugated by my mother who essentially made my son her son. I was too young to exert any power over my mother so...what to do? I was still a kid myself. That boy is barely a man now and has a lot of problems. Our relationship is extremely rocky because he respects and loves his grandmother, my mother and I now see how evil she is. He just can't see it. I am a lawyer now. I had a daughter in my late thirties with my second husband. She is a true princess. I have the time and money to invest in her being the best that she can be. Her father is around. We love each other and her. She just has all the odds stacked in her favor. It is not the first boy's fault that he was born into a nightmare. It is mine. But he is truly struggling in life. I hope he finds himself.

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