Should you allow your girlfriend/boyfriend go to clubs and dance with the opposite sex? Dancing is pretty intimate in clubs I find.
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Because they like to have a bit of freedom.
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Allow? How can you forbid anything to another spirit who should be free as you conseider yourself to be.... Dancing doeasn' t bother me, but something more serious would be a problem...
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Only if its a two way street and your allowed to
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If Im with my man at a club and he even thought about asking another girl to dance..
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I would allow them to go. It would show that I have trust in them.
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Allow? I don't own another person, so if I had a girlfriend it wouldn't be about "allowing" or "disallowing" her to dance with other guys. Now, whether or not I would be a little bothered by it is another thing. Dancing with other guys I'm cool with, but it's when they start bumping and grinding is where I get uncomfortable. I wouldn't want a guy's "thing" rubbing on my girl like that...you know?
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its only intamate if you make it that way. personally i wouldnt dance with a male coz i wouldnt lead them on to think i was single, but id dance with males i know, and know im taken and id expect the same from my partner, he has plenty of female friends that he dances with, wether im there or not
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I have no problem with them going and in fact I encourage it. I have nothing to be jealous of..He's mine and he will always be mine.
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Me and my bf don't have a good time out when we are together for some strange reason... Hes with his friends and I'm with mine... but guys come up to me and grind so I grab my closest friend and pretend they are my s/o girl or boy!! I wouldn't be happy if some girl was grinding him! but I wont STOP him from going out, unless I'm PMS'ing and being a bitch ;)
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Club dancing is very social, while slow dancing is more intimate. He shouldn't be slow dancing with any one else, but just dancing no harm no foul. As long as it is just dancing and no ass grabbing or anything. But yes I agree with the 1st post, it's a 2 way street so he can't get mad if you happen to go out and dance with other guys.
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You should have a discussion about limits and stuff you each agree to. It is part of the commitment not something you allow. If you don't talk about them, then how does he knwo how you feel? Cheating is when you break that commitment. I don't expect to give up friends or fun things because I hook up with someone and I don't expect them to do it either. I make that clear before we hook up. I don't get jealous easily and I hate when my bf gets jealous too. That is the main cause of my break ups - my bf gets jealous.
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If u trust him 100% yeah, but if you are a bit scared ( like i would be ) then talk to him about. he might put yr mind at rest
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I think there is two sides to the story i just had a conversation with my g/f about this she went down to florida and was clubbing w/o me. Its understandable that shes on spring break and yeah i would also go out to if my firends asked me. One side is that if you feel comfortabke enough to let your g/f b/f go otu and do that and you trust them enough then its should be fine . Another side is that if your first gut reaction is that you just dont feel right about it and you dont like it let that person know how you feel because in a good relationship people should be understanding. Its not good making things that u feel wrong and making it ok just cuz the rest of the world is doing it doesnt mean u have to go along with it
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In my opinion, if you are in a relationship, you shouldn't go clubbing, unless it's with your b/f or g/f. We've all been there... And we all know what happens at the clubs... If it's not getting numbers and then some, it's grinding and at least some flirting with whoever strikes your fancy... Ya... You might trust that person 90%... But I don't like my g/f going to clubs because even if she is faithful, guys are constantly hitting on her or trying to grab her the whole night, while she's dressed for clubbing... They don't know she's taken... Why would anyone want their partner going to a place like that? Regardless of whether you trust them or not? Club are for the singles.
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