I have a friend, I find her very attractive, I think she finds me attractive, but we've both agreed it would be best to be just friends. I'm starting to feel like I really want something more. What should I do?
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jbigie
ANSWERS: 8
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Just ask about going to the next level for all you know she feels the same by now.
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An unfortunate part of the situation that I couldn't include in the original question: Both of us are at a point in our lives where dating anybody isn't really a good idea. Also, she is moving about 900 miles away in a year. I don't think it would be fair to get involved and have to leave each other so soon after. And yet I still struggle with these feelings.
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I think, me being a girl, and if i was attracted to someone and hesitated to take the first step or even give those hints.. it's simply because even she would be in the same boat as yours. She is probably confused and introspecting.. I think its best you tell her what you feel! You could start by saying that you think she's beautiful and a wonderful person... and just say it your way!
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Find out if she does as well, and go get her!
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i think once yo cross the line alot of times that attraction loses it's appeal. and does change things. i say stay friends and keep that magnatism you have.
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Ask her to go out with you just once and see what happens.
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She probably wants something more like yourself. All you need to do is communticate with eachother and im sure it will be alright. You don't know something until you try and if don't, you will regret it in the future. Hope this helps
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Tell her what you are telling us here. Respect her answer, and move on.
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