I think that applies for both genders. You cant judge a book by the picture on the cover. Though the title can give you a big idea if its a good one to read or not.

Some men can be utter pigs. And that's most of them, but there are in fact a few men that are looking for just love and are keeping their eyes out for a strong character in a woman. But the latter of men just see an arse for a long while before they develop a fascination for her brain, if they ever do.

Within your brain lies your personality.

Sometimes, usually when the men are immature. As they mature (emotionally and intellectually) most will see it by the time they reach puberty. There are those who NEVER mature in that way, though.

That is why there is so much emphasis on physical appearance. Many guys NEVER see a girl's worth. Generally speaking, we are pathetic. I think more girls should stand up for their worth. I feel sad for girls who judge their worth on what shallow boys see in them, and vice versa.

some guys. Not all. Alota of guys actually give girls 100% chance. Alot of times girls don't give those guys a nano chance.

No one can know anyone's "worth" right away.

well, obviously unless they find out something bad

Lets look at this. Guys will go for the hot little tight girls first. Why? We're guys, its what we do. We like the hot ones. Its after we get to know them that we decide either this girl is a keeper, or no, she's just hot-let her go. Ladies are just the opposite. They want to know a guy, and if they hot...its a bonus...usually. Girls and guys get in different modes. Most guys are just looking to get laid, most girls are looking for a long term relationship. There are exceptions, but not a lot.

It all depends on the individual guys... Most guys have a tendency to go after the "hotter" girls, but the problem is, there is usually very little forethought involved. Those guys are normally just thinking with the front of their pants... However, completely giving up on finding the most perfectly decent and mature specimen of manhood can be a bigger mistake than letting yourself try a few fun relationships... And even if they aren't your "Mr. Right" you're better off with the experience, right? If you're entirely sick of guys who are attracted to you just for your body, then be careful of what you say, and how you move around them. Just covering up is rarely enough to get a guy's eyes off your chest or ass! Also, don't go to clubs or bars alone... That gives guys the impression that you might be looking for a one-night stand... But one thing: Don't look around and say, "Where are all the cute guys who are like my personality along with my body?" Because that's exactly what you won't attract. Sure, a guy who tries to talk to you might not be a Calvin-Klein model, but what's his personality like? What are his interests? Remember: looks are more often a bonus, than the total package! Good Luck! I hope this helps, and I hope you meet someone right for you!!!

awww...you really like her/love her? How old are you two and is she better than any American you've dated?

Go for it...remember I'm female. Not male, lol. Describe her! Describe you!

My husband is probably still trying to figure out what I am good for, personally I think the answer is nothing.