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  • yes...its normal. Well for me it is. Im very happy. Sometimes we just don't have anything to say to each other. We see and talk to each other EVERYDAY...that much material would be hard to come up with. Besides I try not to bother her with trivial stuff anyway....lol
  • I guess it could be normal, but it doesn't sound like much fun. My husband and I have been together for almost seven years and we love talking to one another. We are constantly enjoying conversations and share a lot of common interests. If it's okay with both of you, I guess it's fine. It wouldn't be that fun for me. :)
  • Thats a very good question. Has this just recently started to happen or is it something that has always been there but you chose to ignore it. Opposites do attract, but conversation is key, I think. I would get bored. Do you find that sometimes you both aren't interested in what the other has to say? I personally need to be stimulated in a relationship.
  • It is often the case that opposites attract, and if you are in a relationships you do need outside interests from each other. To have been together for 5 years you must have something in common or it would have died a long time ago. Try to think about what you DO have and not what you dont, as sometimes that can make you feel like you are missing out on something then you will become discontented. I feel you must have some issues or you wouldn't have needed to post the question. Normal is whatever is comfortable for you. Everyone is different. In the main,men are different from us anyway and don't usually enjoy deep conversations with anyone, they are quite happy just being. You shouldn't be looking around thinking that other people are having a better time than you or that the grass is greener, because usually, it isn't! If you are happy and love each other, then be happy while you have each other is what I say. Stay happy :)
  • you arent infatuated with each other anymore. it has to happen with time. the question is...do you stay? most people bale, and look for that infatuation rush again. wise people know love is very tough to find once, almost impossible to find twice.
  • It is normal, but you dont have to accept it. Try new things together. Go rock climbing, biking, ballroom dancing, camping, fishing, just basically DO something together to get conversation to flow. If you tr something new you'll surly be talking about either how much you love it or how much you hate it...and the communication will flow from there.

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