How does a woman justify coming on to an unavailable man? What happened to "do unto others..."? If you've knowingly pursued a man who's married or in a committed relationship, why do you do it? And what would make you stop?
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bashigyal
ANSWERS: 7
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I've never done that and never would. It's way too low. I think these girls have self-esteem issues or no lack of morals. She's probably only stop when the same thing happened to her.
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Because they have no morals or self respect. They settle for sloppy seconds when they KNOW the man is running home to a wife and kids! Don't they realize that if a man left his family for them his kids would never like her...they would see her for the homewrecker she is and resent her for taking their daddy away and for causing undeserved pain to their momther. Some woman just have absolutely no class at all...makes me sick Do unto to others that which you would wish to have done to you....Karma is a bitch
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whores, PERIOD, and has low self esteem gullible and naive
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it seems this hasn't been answered by a person in the situation that the question was directed to. i am in love with a married man. i had no intention of this happening AT ALL, in fact, i was engaged when we met. we were coworkers, and spent 40+ hours a week in a tiny room, for over a year. we became best friends. one night, we discovered our physical attraction to each other. we are both good people with good families and friends. it can happen to anyone. life is not black and white, and not all men who cheat are scumbags. sometimes, love happens despite it being "wrong". what would make me stop? losing him as a friend, which means more to me than anything in the world. i would give up our relationship in a second if i had to, in order to stay in his life.
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Maybe she's "in love" with him. Maybe she just doesn't care. Maybe it's happened to her and she's trying to convince herself it wasn't so bad because she also can do it to someone else. Maybe she was really, really attracted to him and allowed herself to fall into temptation. Maybe he's a sweet talker and she falls for people easily and believes anything. Maybe she feels like she's special. There are many possibilities. I've never knowingly pursued a man who is married. I have liked guys who were in a relationship (either before I knew or before the guy even got a girlfriend in the first place). Why did I like them? Well, because I did. They had good personalities and they were nice to me. If I ever ended up in this situation, the thing that would probably make me stop is if the guy stopped encouraging me and told me that he didn't want to do it anymore.... Anyway, I've never helped someone cheat, but I am trying to put myself in the shoes of someone who has.
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Listen. I feel like everyone thinks that they can have this huge judgemental image of women who have done or do this. Just because you haven't done this, doesn't mean you haven't done something else that is far worse. I am a woman who is dating the man she fell for and yes he was married when we started. We were friends first and so obviously there was a sense of safety already there. You can't call someone a whore because you don't like who she is fucking. As long as she isn't fucking multiple people then technically she isn't a whore. All I am saying is that the judgement isn't necessary because if someone is going to do this then she is going to do this. I don't condone cheating that is not what I am saying because I would never cheat on my significant other. But in life you can't always help the one you love and even if we weren't together right now we would still be friends.
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There is no justification for coming on to an unavailable man. You will reap what you sow. Some women do it for sport others for revenge or jealousy, but regardless of the reason there is no excuse. I think a woman would only stop by her own freewill or because of some unforeseen devastating effect happening in her life as a result of her shameless pursuit.
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