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Well no, you shouldn't freak out. But you shouldn't agree to keep that kind of secret either. Your ex should not be contacting your current girlfriend, unless she's worried about her safety or something. That's inappropriate, and someone (preferably YOU) should tell her so. She should not be butting in to your current relationship, it's a boundary violation. So I don't know why you can't call her on it, but that's what I would suggest -- tell her some form of "hey, butt out, that is unwelcome behavior. If you have something to say to my girlfriend, say it to both of us at the same time".
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