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  • Hold on, let me try to sort out this soap opera. 1) You have a "mate." I guess in this context this is meant to be "friend" and not "partner." 2) You have a f*k buddy that you have sex with, without planning to have a relationship [hey, that's how the two of you set it up]. 3) Now you're upset that your friend told your f*k buddy that she'd like to pursue a relationship with him? What exactly is your hold on him? Isn't that the whole point of setting up a f*k buddy situation? If you have changed your mind, and now want to pursue a relationship with your f*k buddy, tell him. This is a much better use of your time than getting into a snit over someone beating you to the punch. And next time, talk to your partners about your feelings, and not the Internet.
  • this is going to sound harsh! get a grip, get some self esteem. If a guy doesn't like you and likes your friend having sex with him isn't going to change that. Now that you know he's into your friend and she's into him you need to stop having sex with him. It's not ok as a lady to do because your feelings are now getting hurt.
  • Why would anyone want so much drama and complications in their life? First thing, SaraMonster is right, get some self esteem. Second tell your friend (not the FWB the other one) to get some self esteem too. Now to answer the question what should you do. Break it off, grow up, and find a heathly relationship.

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