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  • You cannot make or force a person to be close to you. If you want her respect and love, then act in a manner in which she will freely give it to you and learn to be a little more trusting in her and your relationship. Sometimes people will shy away from partners who seem overly needy and dependent on them and I think you might need to be a little careful of coming across that way :)
  • Ye you cannot MAKE anyone love you, your efforts will be fruitless cos you'll probably end up driving her away from you. All you can do is show someone you love them to the extent that you can. Even though you're far away, don't suffocate her with texts or phone calls, but enough to let her know you're thinking about her and genuinly care about how she's doing. Remember that life and love is unpredictable, and even if you've only ever been good to her and treated her well, she MAY still have a change of heart some day. But life goes on and if it is her choice one day to leave you, respect that decision. Perhaps one day you may be the one to fall out of love with her and leave her heart broken...
  • Give her room to breathe. Your very words sound like you want to suffocate her in your "love". If you force her to be any closer, you will probably push her away. The only exception is if she wants to be closer to you as well.

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