So my boyfriend keeps wanting anal sex with me but I don't want it cause I think its going to hurt. Is there anything I can do to make it less painful?
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ameliaearhart
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G'day Ameliaearhart, Thank you for your question. Using lubricant is a very good idea. Make sure that you are both well lubricated. Regards
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It will not be painful if you pleasure yourself first, read this web site "Abicana web store" then click on "anal masturbation" make sure that you are comfortable with anal penetration with yourself before you have him ram his penis up your ass.
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it's going to hurt the first time.. Just like when you had sex for the first time... Dont' worry about it though.. The first time you do it it will feel like you really really have to poop. Ignore that feeling.. You're not going to I swear :) Go for it and don't worry about the pain... You won't care when it's happening...
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if you dont want it dont do it simple! is ther something wrong with ur vagina?
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Its painful.. But, It feels better honestly... Use Vasoline... :) It helps and going very slow at first.. Oh, and being drunk of my booty helped lots too.. :)
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If you go online to Eden Fantasies or a like site you can find anal plugs of varying sizes (you should start small and work up to his size) and there are numbing lubricants that will help prepare you and therefore make it a more enjoyable experience. You could make a game out of it. Due to the shape of these butt plugs you could wear it around all day while at work or home and no one will see it (it's shaped to not fall out). This will help you relax and help build anticipation of the event due to the constant stimulation and the reminder of having it in. For more info there are books at most major book stores in the adult or sexual health section and at the Eden Fantasy website. And also, no matter what preparation you do, go slow, use lots of lube and remember if it hurts to much stop and try again later. It will feel good when you have work up to it and not forced your way though. You should both get pleasure out of it not just him. Only do this if you are both interested and you both need to be patient. Good luck and I hope this helps.
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Fuck no it hurts like a son of a bitch...from personal expierience and let me tell u its not going 2 happen again.
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First get a dildo the same size as his unit and ram it up *his* ass and then see if he still thinks a good idea.
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First, if you think its going to hurt, it going to hurt. You both need to relax. You will need a lot of foreplay and lube. He needs to understand that he cant just go to town like if he was doing you normally. It may sound gross but either fingering you or using a small vibrator will loosen you up. And yes the first time will be a bit uncomfortable, but it can be pretty great if it's done right.
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