I have a friend that is 17 and she is dating a 60 year old man who is married. How can I tell her that she shouldn't be with him?
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Akemi Almasy
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I would start by telling her parents or calling the cops. There is no question that he is manipulatiing her! Help her get out of this relationship before more horrible things happen!
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A 17 year old girl should not be dating a 60 year old married man. its bad for both. the girl is learning a bad example of what you should not expect from a relationship. the 60 year old will be discovered and the trouble will begin. Lets look at this in another light. if the man was not married and the girl was l8, would it make a difference? the differnce in age makes no difference, if the following is observed: both must be of legal age, both must be unmarried or a widower, both must be happy being together. this happens, sometimes and i see no problem, if all the above is met.
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Well chances are that she sees SOMETHING in him, you gotto know what that is. Well... this is exactly the story of Nishabd. http://specials.rediff.com/movies/2006/jun/12sd3.htm http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0824375/
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Call her parentings fast
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Tell her that he will go to jail if anyone finds out
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Call her a gold digging whore, and tell her that this man is using her. Be blunt and direct. I'm sure everyone is tapdancing around it instead of calling her on her disgusting habits. Tell her it's disgusting, and that you won't stand by and watch her whore herself for whatever this man has to offer. For sure it isn't just sex! Most teenage girls want someone THEIR AGE, not grandpa- which means he has somethign she wants, and it's not just grandpas toffee. Then if she doesn't do it, walk away. It's hard, but when people do stupid things and do it intentionally even when they know the consequences- the consequences aren't "bad" enough so they continue the stupid behavior. And at least if they don't pull their head out of their ass then you don't have to watch her whore herself to grandpa.
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Yes.
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Show her a walnut and tell her it's his willy.
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okay that guy is hold enough to be your grandfather. i dont see anything wrong with dating older people but dating someone that much older is crossing the line. what does she find attractive about him? i think you should just tell the truth just exactly what you think. if she is a true friend she will listen to you, she may get mad at you for it, but so what she will realize your helping her out in the long run. i wouldnt envolve her parents just yet, talk with her and tell her how you feel about the situation give her a month or two. and if nothing changes then go to her parents.
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You can't. She's got to discover that for herself. My friend is living with a man 50 years year senior (she's 37, he's 87). They've been together for years and she absolutely adores him. However, despite her desire, he refuses to marry her. His health is declining and she's basically his care-giver. She has some problems with her health which is manageable on its own but since she's caring for him, it's hard on her to care for herself. He's not mistreated her in any way but he's not giving her the life she desires with him. It's really sad. Oops, sorry, I missed the bit where it said your friend's older fella is married. I'd express your concerns in this case.
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may be he is rich and she is using him for money, many girls do it and this is a fact.
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