I am a 21-year-old and never really been in a serious relationship. I am a conservative christian woman and I want to be in a relationship badly. I don't know what is going on. Any suggestions would be GREAT!!!
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well being a conservative christian perhaps your standards are too high. with people you need to be flexible and know that not every guy is going to believe in the exact things you do. try to b friendly and outgoing but most importantly accepting of other peoples beliefs. and if your looking for love, its not gonna happen "the watched pot never boils"
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Perhaps there is someone at your church you can become interested in. You should join your church's groups or activities. You may find like minded individuals. Don't push too hard because it will probably come out wrong.
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Why do you need to be in a relationship so badly? Is it because your friends are couples and you feel left out? Because that is a bad reason to start a relationship. Do you feel lonely? Also, (I believe), another bad reason to start a relationship, because you then allow yourself to become dependant of another person for company. Not good. I feel that you should examine your reasons for wanting a relationship. Be honest. Sex, company, a barrier against loneliness. to blend in with other couples? When you are desparate for a relationship it will show in your interactions with others, males pick up on this and you will attract only those sort of men who will see you as easy prey. Not good for you. If I may suggest you also pray to God. Ask him to reveal His will, (as I did) to take up this matter so you can stop worrying about it, ask Him to send who he feels is right for you along when he is ready and (most importanly) decide to yourself to leave it to God and obey His will. Most amazingly you will stop worrying about it and even more amazingly one day you will meet a wonderful person who is rady to be your partner.
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I too know the feeling, but use this peace of advice, I got a Dui, felt like "damaged goods" because i was molested as a child, and a very insecure person to begin with. I met my new wife over the internet, have only seen her three times in person, am in love with her, dont regeret marrying her, but know that i rushed into this WAY too quick.....I know that i could have found someone that would make me so much happier in life but also cannot lie, i do love her and wouldnt change things. I am very insecure with my new marriage and question her with the slightest and stupidest suspicions.....I have a very unhealthy releationship, and just want you to know you do not need to be in a relationship with anyone but god to be happy....
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G'day Whitney, Thank you for your question. I would suggest that you see if there is a potential partner in your church. You might also want to look at a dating service especially one that has a high proportion of Christians as member. Regards
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Test the waters, lots of bible believing churches have groups to socialize in bowling night, game night etc some are especially designed for single adult or teenagers , all fun ways of meeting other christians who maybe looking for a relationship and no hidden agenda's good clean wholesome fun, BTW Start up a singles group at church if yours doesn't have one, start an on line chrisian saved and secure singles group meet at McDonalds or Friendly's or Perkins or Wendy's a causal diner, Pizza hut or ponderosa Eatting and meeting go hand in hand. seek and ye shall find , ask and ye shall receive all things work together for good who are called so in everything give thanks so be happy and continue having fun at church sooner or later your desires will be met in Gods timing not yours .
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