Say goodbye to my inlaws.

id agree with the other person. i been there. they are about heresay evidence. they always make u out to be harmful even when your not. im still trying to get my own kids back. trust the other person and eliminate them. they cant tresspass and if they need to see the kids meet other places. but i also made that mistake and the little scratches and marks from playtime with friends the mother in law used against me and accused me of abuse and corced the kids. when they are scared theyll say anything they are told. to go back home. trust no one. im zerocool9m at myspace. com

i would sue their asses for slander...or just be really pissed off.

I wouldnt do anything. I wouldnt call them, I wouldnt visit them, I wouldnt do anything with or for them.

I would be pretty pissed off that they didn't come to me to talk about it. I would never go out of my way to see those in-laws again. They would not be welcomed into my home.

I'd invite child services in and let them have a really good picture of what a waste of time the visit was. Next time, they'll likely ignore her. I had someone call the humane society on me once for treatment of a horse. By the time they'd inspected my clean, well-bedded barn etc, they were shaking their heads and saying they wouldn't be back. Someone had said I was neglecting my horses and they didn't have shelter. They could see plainly for themselves the horses weren't neglected and did have shelter. They also understood that we had a heavey horse (asthmatic) who couldn't breathe in the barn and couldn't be left out alone, so for his sake we kept the horses out most of the time. They came in when we had extreme cold, cold wind or cold rain. Other than that, they were out for the sake of the heavey horse. They were well-fed, clean, properly shod, up-to-date on shots, and had good dental care. They had clean water, quality hay and good feed. Some folks like stirring the pot. They are bullies. They don't have the courage to speak to you to your face. They don't bother to speak to you to find out the reasons for what you are doing. They want to scare you with authorities. The authorities don't have time for their nonsense. Once they investigate, they aren't going to be bothered coming out again unless they find something substantive. After the visit, I would very sweetly and innocently tell the in-laws all about the visit, and how CPS said it was a waste of time and they wouldn't be back.

I would say, "ok, tell me something I haven't heard before"