to add more to this, since the question is super basic: We dated for 2 years, had a really rocky relationship towards the end and we mutually ended things together. We decided to focus on being friends but that proved difficult for him which is why I stopped talking to him for a month. I called him before I came back to town on vacation from school and he was overly enthusiastic to hear from me and was just going on and on about what he's been up to as if it had been years since we spoke. We met up for a lunch date and it went really really well. No arguing, no tension, just pure fun and laughter and it ultimately seemed like there was never any bad blood between us at all and it was as if we never even dated. He went to kiss me on the cheek goodbye but since i'm oblivious to things like that I just went in for the hug. We hugged for a good 10 minutes and he squeezed on to me like he never wanted to let me go. He was really into playing games in the relationship and testing my patience like a true virgo..always testing! But since I have just grown and learned I didn't feed into his games and before I left to go back to school in california he texted me to say that he was sorry for leaving his phone at home after we had arranged to see each other at least once more before I went back to school, and I kept positive by making it seem like it didn't bother me at all and said that we should arrange to meet up again when I come home in March and when I landed and went back to school the last I heard from him was a text reply saying "No doubt, i'll save a brownie i wanted to give ya"..I didn't reach out for 6 days and didn't call but skipped over the call to just leave a voicemail through my messaging system and since that I haven't heard back from him! I am just super confused! I don't know what to do or what this could mean? I still truly have feelings for him and hope to eventually get back together with him!

blah this happened to me/is happening. I'm just going with it, i wish we could be friends but if he isn't willing to put forth any effort then why should i. eventually he'll realize that he was stupid and he lost a really good friend that would've been there for him considering all you went through. idk just a thought. it's just not going to make you feel better knowing that you're the reason why you guys are continuing being friends, you want it to be both.

Don't waste your time with him.