Say why big people always have something smart to say about thin poeple? I hate that, like my co-worker she pretty big and always talking smack, last time she asked me why u so skinny, and I looked at her stupid and said why u so fat and she got offended
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I don't know what her specific problem is, but I think it's dangerous to generalize that all "big people" act a certain way or do a certain thing. It's the same problem you run into when people say people of a certain ethnicity act a certain way...only that's called racism.
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lol! Sounds like she has some issues with her weight and is trying to make herself feel better by talking about thin people.
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Sounds like she is putting you down to make herself feel better. Next time just tell her that her insults are not becoming of her and they make her look like she has a very poor character. "Judge not lest ye be judged".
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Your coworker probably says it because she wants you to feel awkward or bad about your weight, because every time she sees you, she feels awkward and bad about her weight. She's constantly reminded of just how fat she is and how much she really wants to be at a healthier size like yours. But if she admitted that then she would have to change her bad habits. that's too hard, so it's so much easier to talk smack. If you talk to her about it and she doesn't get the hint, just ignore her. She will stop.
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she is jelous of you, shes angry because her weight is HER problem. shes trying to make her self feel better saying that being 'so skinny' is not a nice look, just ignore her, if she comments like that again say thanks dont stoop down to her level by retaliating
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Probably trying to shift the notion of normal a little towards her way. I dont know how thin you really are, but if she convinces herself that you are abnormally thin, then she might not feel so fat. Everything is relative.
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The whole exchange just sounds stupid...
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and this is just another stereotype i mean not everyone that is big says things about thin people, i'm big and never put anyone down, i think your coworker is just plain mean with you and has issues with herself.
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LOL! Right on! Sounds like she just can't take what she's dishing out!
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You really should not respond to an insult with an insult. That makes you look as bad as the people who are insulting you. Instead, when insulted, smile coldly and do not insult back. Trust me... it works. It sounds like your co-worker is just plain an *ss based upon your statement that she always talks smack. I can bet that you are not the only one she has insulted.
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Perhaps it is because your co-worker is ashamed at her own lack of self-control. Think about it. In order to gain and maintain obesity, one has to eat a lot, and often. Most obese people are emotional eater whether they admit it or not. Food is their drug and their enemy...or so I've read.
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I'm big and I only talk smack if I'm thinking about eating you. Is that wrong of me?
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Its simple. skinny people are always on our backs.
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well skinny people do that also but your co worker sounds like she doesnt feel good about her self and was probally made fun of in school
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jealousy, m'dear =]
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Tell youur co-worker to get a life i think that she is doesn't like herslef so she takes out her anger and maddness on people around her. Live laugh love, Alexis luv ya
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