ANSWERS: 12
  • Not to me, but I don't go for macho guys. My husband is man enough for me, and he is definitely in touch with his feminine side! I am not certain why there is such a strong focus on gender and gender specific behaviors in our culture. No jerks for me, thanks!
  • No! Not at all...I think more men should be like that...as long as you dress like a guy, and have the appropriate southern features :P thats man enough!!
  • You don't have to be a bastard to be manly. My ex was a little too soft, affectionate and romantic. It wasn't my thing. Some women like it, I guess.
  • some girls like a guy to treat them bad, but i dont accept that..just be who you are, and you shouldnt change just because she thinks that about you..trust me there are many girls out there who wil appreciate a man like you..im glad that there are still men out there likie you..soo keep it up..
  • Frankly, I like a man with a soft femine side. He's able to show me how he can sympthasize with me. The man that I have now treats me the way I want to be treated, like a woman. He's aware of my needs,both emotionally and sexually.
  • When I was younger, I liked hardcore. But now that I am relatively grown-up, I would much rather have a guy who really loves me and acts like he does, than a "bastard."
  • Okay, you are completely taking what she said the wrong way. Just because she says you're not manly enough doesn't mean you have to be a jerk. From the sounds of it, you aren't manly enough. Whipped may be a more accurate word to describe you.
  • Rather than try and change your personality for a girl, I think you should try and find one who appreciates you for who you are. Some women don't care for sensitive men and some do.
  • I like a guy with all those qualities, but I also like a guy who stands up for what he believes in and won't back down just for my sake. In other words, I like my husband :) Just be who you are and if she can't accept that then that is her issue, not yours.
  • Well, kid, you're a slow learner, but the light is getting brighter, I can tell. Son, if you had muscles on your muscles she'd say you weren't sensitive enough. If you ate a turd she cooked you aren't supportive enough. It will go on like that no matter what you do. Get used to it.
  • Bastard? No! I like guys like you but, you better know how to control me. You can't be a wuss! You have to wear the pants.
  • some girls need the "bad boy" image going for their guy, what i mean is she probabley wants more of a challenge from you, that thing that keeps her hanging on and waiting for the next unexpected move your going to make.... guys that seem to be "too nice" are very much predictable!

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