ANSWERS: 9
  • that is kind of mean of your girl to say that to you.
  • I dont think that you should have told him it was small, that is kind of hurtful, and i dont know how you can make him feel better after that, guys tend to be really sensative about that. You can tell him that size dosent matter ,its what they do with it that counts.
  • Well I was told that by my girlfriend before we got together. We used to be just friends with benifits but I knew I was small and she had said I was small. But she didn't mean that as a bad thing and I didn't take affense to it. She actually injoys sex with me a lot more cause we can do so much more without hurting her and we can have sex a lot more without her getting sore as fast. She still gets sore. I can make her scream and I can give her the biggest orgasms she has ever had so I think thats all that counts. If she is satisfied does it really matter how big your penis is? No. For the record. I am 5 1/2 inches.
  • I first brought it up to my wife about my 4". She said it was ok, but knew i was this small from the start. I asked her if she wanted to bring in a friend of ours to spice things up every so often. Turns out he has a 8" and quite thick. Its quite a scene seeing her expressions when she wiggles around trying to accept him fully. She loves me for my open-ness, and we love spicing up our sex life doing this. I think its hot to see her enjoy him honestly.
  • OUCH! You better tell him how big it is (lie). You better say it a lot.
  • I would just laugh at the comment, and make them believe I don't care (which would be the truth). Most women say this to a man in hopes it will hurt his feelings. If they think he doesn't care, or give a good rat's ass what they think, they may still have contempt for him as a sexual creature, but it will unnerve them if they believe the insult had no negative effect on his self image.
  • I absolutely would appreciate the honesty. There was a time when I was a little self-conscious about it, but I've accepted I'm hung like a parakeet and now it kinda is a turn on to have a woman comment on my penis...
  • yes, i would appreciate it. in fact that is why even today i respect my ex-wife that is why she left me and told me so, said she loved me ,i just didn't satisfy her. 6 1/2 is small though.
  • First of all, you have just dropped a sexual hydrogen-bomb on the guy. The man knew he was small or thought he was small to begin with. You told him he was inadequate. Now, you need to boost up his ego. If I was a woman and had to boost his ego, after I had shot him down, I would do the following... I would take lots of time to sit/lay between his legs and play with his penis. I would give him lots of oral sex. I would make comments that were not about size but about how much I love his penis. If we had intercourse, I would be telling him how good he feels. How much you feel him inside you. Yes, you might have to lie some, but you will be boosting his confidence and reversing what has been done.

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