Oh, now surely no right-minded woman would turn down such a 'charming' invitation! If she isn't screaming too loudly as she is running away, I might yell out, 'I'LL CALL YOU!" ;)

Well i dont think that there is actualy anyone out there who doest like sex, and if she doesnt like oral sex maybe she likes sometnihg else. A guy who cares about you will be willing to compromise and he will tell you that.

if youre on a first date with someone and she doesnt give you a blowjob doesnt that make you RESPECT HER?

I would say "well is a hand job out of the question?" and sure I would take her out again.

I think if you are expecting oral sex in order to consider a woman as a potential relationship partner, then you should only date prostitutes. Women don't usually like to be expected to give sexual favors in order to be granted future dates.

Whatever you do, treat her with some "By God" respect. If you get mean and nasty with her, you likely won't be getting anything. 'cept maybe an a$$ whuppin' from her old man. And you, being a lady, now know what you should be able to expect.

WAIT THREE DATES First of all, I would never bring up sex for the first three dates. Those are the dates where she is just getting through her fears. The only purpose of those dates is for her to get comfortable. Does asking such a question make her comfortable and safe-feeling? If she's feeling sexual, she will let you know, and big-time! After the first three dates, then you get to learn a little bit about her, and explore what's possible. I'm assuming that at this point she and you know each other fairly well, to where such a question is natural and makes sense to offer her this. BE HONEST AND TACTFUL I would say "Well, I was just being honest, and it's worth asking. Thanks for taking care of yourself!" The plain fact is that many women enjoy giving (and receiving!) oral sex, and it's just a matter of finding someone who is compatible with you. If it's no big deal to you, then keep dating and develop a fine relationship without oral sex. About a third of the married women I know of really don't like such a yucky, dirty unreligious non-Catholic thing, and so their husband goes without. For some of the guys it makes a difficult marriage, and for others it's fine. Some couples require it, some don't. If oral sex is a big deal to you in a relationship, then it's good to find out discretely and tactfully before you make very much emotional investment in the relationship. Just don't be crude about it. LET EVERYONE BE AS THEY ARE Personally, I need a lot of physical affection in a relationship: petting, hugs, snuggling for hours, trading long massages every week. I would have an impossible time feeling intimate and close with someone without oral sex. And if a woman has severe body issues, a reduced level of affection and closeness is just not going to be liveable, with me. And to be realistic, there's certainly no reason to push or coax somebody. If I have to persuade somebody to do something, they'll be whining and complaining the whole time. What a drag, for everybody. So I would be very polite, say thank you, and give lots of appreciations for the nice things about her. I'd be friendly with her around town, but let her go, as far as dating or romance. Every individual has their own preferences and needs. You gotta shop around.

In my honest opinion unless you have been dating this girl long enough to know you have some really deep and intense feelings for her that come from the heart and not your crotch you should not be asking her for any sexual favors unless you just see her as a piece of ass and nothing more. It is proper manners and always polite to wait until the woman has given you some sort of signal that suggests she is ready to take your relationship to that level before being bold enough to ask for any kind of sexual favors. Women appriciate a guy more if he lets them be in control of when things become intimate in a relationship. More than likely if a woman answered yest to a question like that after that one time she would feel that she was nothing more than a piece of meat to you and unless she was the kind of girl that liked being viewed as and used as someones piece of meat I can almost gurantee you that you won't have to worry about future dates because she will probably drop your ass like a hot potato.

Moron... 1)If your doing this with in a month and you have not been intimate you are just stupid. 2)Forget you even have a penis for like 4 hours when you're on a date and you might just get laid. 3)if she has any self respect she will never see you again.

I can give it. I don't half to take it and yup, I sure would ask her out again.:-)

I WOULD STILL TAKE HER OUT BECAUSE IT'S NOT ALL ABOUT THAT WITH ME.

Trust me there is someone for everyone if this is the method you wanna use then you will get slapped a few hundred times and then some day some chick will react exactly the way you want her to.

I would never ask someone I just started dating that question. If I was drunk or retarded and asked that and she said no, then I would know she is a nice girl and worth all the time in the world to get to know better. I would probably focus all my dating efforts on her for a while.