by Kirzin on May 23rd, 2006

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My Christian flatmate tells me that I will go to hell because I don't believe in Jesus. She also said my relatives are burning and being tortured in hell as non-believers. Is this what Christians believe?

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  • by Krjackson1982 on December 19th, 2006

    Krjackson1982

    Okay first of all it is hideously cruel for your flatmate to be saying that in the first place! I'm going to be completely honest with you!!! This is the kind of behaviour that gives Christians everywhere a bad rap! The judgemental, arrogance that gives people the idea that they can fully assume the right to tell people how to live!!!!!! God gave us a free will to decide how to act and how to accept things. It's none of your flatmate's business. If she wants to try to lead you to Christ then she's going about it the WRONG way!!

    You do not catch more bees with vinegar...

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  • by Tamilze on May 6th, 2008

    Tamilze

    No. There is no such thing as hell. You should remove this person from your life before her insanity rubs off on you, or something....

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  • by Glenn Blaylock on May 6th, 2008

    Glenn Blaylock

    It is not the place of any of us to judge where someone will go once they die. That is between them and God. Unfortunately, there are certain "Christians" who seem to think that they can usurp God's authority in this matter.

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  • by va_freaking_nessa on December 28th, 2006

    va_freaking_nessa

    If a Christian told me to 'go to hell', I wouldn't think of them as a Christian anyway.

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  • by Stillme FBB on May 6th, 2008

    Stillme FBB

    Not as far as I'm concerned. Who are we to judge? Only God can see our hearts, only he can be the Judge of our eternal life.

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  • by gung-ho on May 23rd, 2006

    gung-ho

    Not all Christians believe that, in fact quite a small number do in my experience. My mum is a fairly strict Christian that believes you go to Heaven if you're a good person. I consider myself to be Christian but I don't believe in Hell at all, neither does my dad who is also Christian.
    I had this argument with someone recently who passionately believed that anyone who did not believe in Jesus would go to Hell. I asked her if that meant that Hitler (a Catholic) would be in Heaven yet the Dalai Lama (sp) would be in Hell and she said yes!! That doesn't make much sense to me!

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  • by Dmitri on May 6th, 2008

    Dmitri

    Whoever said that is not going about it the right way. Obviously, they don't know how truly hellacious hell truly is, for if they did, they wouldn't run around condemning others to go there. Hell should be mentioned with concern and even tears, for it is a horrible thing, and not something to toss around indiscriminately.

    Jesus died for all, and He never went around saying that, and if we are Christian, we shouldn't either. Jesus didn't nag, and Christians should not nag either. Jesus is love and compassion, but since He did die for us and shed His blood for our sins, so that we can and should have eternal life, we will go to hell if we reject Him.

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  • by Glenn Blaylock on January 20th, 2007

    Glenn Blaylock

    The is an oft misinterpreted verse in the Bible. "Judge not, that ye be not judged." Matthew 7:1 Many people misinterpret this to say that we are not to make any judgments about other people at all. This is wrong. What Jesus was saying here is that we are not supposed to make unrighteous judgments. About the most unrighteous judgment that one of us can make is to pronounce judgment on someone's immortal soul. It is not our place to make those judgments. It is God's. Only He can look at and judge a person's heart. For one of us to make a judgement as to the final disposition of someone else is the hight of arrogance. Such a person should be more concerned with their own eternal welfare for they are committing the sin of pride.

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  • by kellygorski on January 19th, 2007

    kellygorski

    Your flatmate is an idiot. You shouldn't live with her anymore. She sounds a little nuts.

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  • by Super on November 1st, 2008

    Super

    Is your Christian fltamate's name happen to be Lucifer?

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  • by Rakewell on May 6th, 2008

    Rakewell

    Christians are insane. Nice people, good intentions, but naive, clueless and gullible. Don't believe a word they say.

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  • by bunceee on January 19th, 2007

    bunceee

    unfortunately, this is what many "christian" people believe, the old "fire and brimstome" scare you into submission tactics. It always amazing to me that these christian people are so willing to condem all that don't believe what they do - how exactly is that christian? Anyway, your "friend" is no friend at all, she/he is rude and judgemental. Best to steer clear of that person and the topic of religion.

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  • by Doug on November 8th, 2008

    Doug

    If I had a flatmate like that, Gee! Hell is where I would want to be. Then I wouldn't have to spend an eternity with her. Praise The Lord !

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  • by Rinky Dinky Do on December 5th, 2008

    Rinky Dinky Do

    They actually believe much more screwed up things than that but, yeah, that's one of them

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  • by Billy Escalade on October 16th, 2008

    Billy Escalade

    We were told to Love God and love everyone else. If we obeyed those commandments then we Loved God then we would know Him and if we know him we get to spend eternity with Him.

    That simple.

    Alot of American CHristians, (they seemed to be different elsewhere, like where they are being killed for what they believe i.e China) Say they know God, and they try and be His ambassador and speak with so much conviction about what everyone is supposed to do blah blah blah. But they fail to realize that the basis for knowing God is to love.
    They always say that they are loving by telling everyone the truth (usually just their opinion of the truth).
    Christian in the West got the gift of gab, instead of the gift of just doing, it is easier to just tell someone then to live it. Not all Christian are like this, I know of some really rad Christians, that anyone no matter what they believed would love to keep company with these Christians. But those types of Christians are hard to come by. Sad but true.

    I don't know much of why this person told you what they did, but If I had a relationship with someone(even if I didn't) I wouldn't be so apt to be so insensitive to tell you such a thing about the people that you care about. Instead of telling you about burning in hell, they should have demonstrated God's love for you by being a better representative of God by actions, and allowed you to interpret what God was trying to tell you.
    Just my rusty pennies worth

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  • by Aintthatapip - Kevonian Overlord on September 4th, 2008

    Aintthatapip - Kevonian Overlord

    Your flatmate is a bitch.

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  • by Sivia on May 6th, 2008

    Sivia

    Of course not!! I can tell you what catholics believe. Firstly, I suppose that what you say is from a conversation, you can't ignore the explanations and the reasons she said. But anyway, no one can tell you're going to hell. Forget about that because what catholics belive is in God, and God is Love. Maybe she forgot to tell you first that God loves you and He just want the best for you. He would love that you get to know Him to discover the true happiness... This might sound as typical words but it is just to make you think that you have to give an answer to that Love at some point. You won't go to hell if you don't want. If you reject God's Love, you are chosing hell... There is no other option. Anyway, it's difficult to explain in a few lines but I hope you might feel more peaceful. And if you are really interested, don't listen to those comments, go to a catholic Church and ask yourself to a priest. Or contact me if you like.
    Silvia

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  • by tris992000 on December 28th, 2006

    tris992000

    Your Christian flatmate should keep her opinions to herself and not inflict them, or her beliefs, on others. If she were truely Christian she would believe in goodwill to others (or something like that). You are free to believe what you like - as she is - but she is not free to persecute you. I'd tell her to get stuffed! Sorry to be direct but there you go.

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  • by Heman-Azarel on October 31st, 2008

    Heman-Azarel

    That a person who does not accept Jesus and dies that way goes to hell is general biblical fact/truth. But to say that some specific person who has died is in hell is tricky because only God knows the condition of that person before s/he died and his or her present spiritual circumstances. So the first is mere repetition of what the Bible says and therefore is not judgemental, but the second appears to me to be judgemental because it has become specific.

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  • by DiSTurBiA on October 24th, 2008

    DiSTurBiA

    yup, sadly they do. You know because THEY are so perfect.

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  • by Phillis - Zacks little sister on October 18th, 2008

    Phillis - Zacks little sister

    As Christians, our place is not to judge, but to love others as God loves us. If we can get that down, then we may qualify to judge others. It could take eons!

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  • by cobber on September 4th, 2008

    cobber

    this is what some Christians believe...but they are usually the ones who where told that, and didn't bother to read Jesus's teaching completely.
    Jesus said that no man can get to heaven by simply believing and that no man can get to heaven by only doing good deads, you have to do both.
    I personally beleive that if you are a good person, you will get into heaven, but that it is hard to always do good things without God/Jesus/Scripture/spituallity being used for guidance.
    But part of doing what is right is respecting others beliefs and not getting mad even when your flatmate tells you that you and your family are going to hell. sounds to me that she is on her way there, and that might be why she is so bitter.

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  • by ET-11 on August 25th, 2008

    ET-11

    Two stories:

    1) When I was a kid, I picked up a religious radio station in Waterloo, Iowa, about 700 miles away.

    The preacher gave about 6 examples of people that he "Saved," who died shortly after they Accepted Jesus. I guess that the preacher thought that he did something Good, saving them from Hell.

    The 12-year-old kid thought that accepting Jesus was as good as taking Arsenic.

    2) The Tour.
    A Good Person entered the Pearly Gates and was given the Complementary Tour of the different parts of Heaven.

    At one location, he was told not to make any noise.

    The Flatmate's group inhabited that part of Heaven, "and they think that they're the Only ones Here!"

    They can talk and you can Ignore.

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  • by zazzy_one on May 6th, 2008

    zazzy_one

    No. Hell has not come to pass yet. Christians believe that hell is in the future so...I suspect that your friend is like many of the Christians out there, picking and choosing and really not all that biblically literate.

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  • by Oor Galooly - on May 6th, 2008

    Oor Galooly -

    Nobody knows who is in heaven and who is in Hell, it is for God to decide.

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  • by cambsman on January 15th, 2007

    cambsman

    As a child I learnt my scriptures etc and was religious. Hence I enjoy answering questions re faith on here. My father was an atheist and the thought of him in hell jsut because he did not believe was enough for me to give up religion....

    The most important of all the 10 commandments is to beleive in the one true God. that is the only commandment that if you leave broken at the time of your death then God will not forgive you for. So I think in theory if you dont beleive then you are not going to go to heaven. Hecne a lot of Christians now beleive in purgatory as a middle ground between heaven and hell...

    Religion is very dear to people and brings some lots of comfort - but sometimes it can bring pain.
    I hope that everyones God goes with them - in my case I am happy to walk alone..

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  • by Kirzin on May 24th, 2006

    Kirzin

    Thanks for your kind answers.
    Nitanitro, your reply sounds like the person you were talking to could have been my flatmate.
    My flatmate also said that cos my grandma was a healer, but didn't believe in Jesus, that people she healed were actually healed by Satan!!So everybody she healed are now in Satan's power!
    I enquired more about Hell from her, and she said that my very dear grandma and other departed loved ones, are being tortured in hell for ever and ever, for eternity.

    This is the most horrible thing I have ever heard. I am totally disgusted, and feel like my flatmate is trying to judge like God, Jesus/Satan themselves. I don't know what to do.
    Her thoughts are so sick and horrible, I keep having nightmares, even though I say to myself that it is not true. Help?

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  • by scubabob on May 23rd, 2006

    scubabob

    A majority (but not all) of the funadamentalist followers of religions, believe that they alone are right, everyone else wrong and as such, unless we convert/repent, we're heading for the great down under cook off. A TRUE christian has many definitions according to who you ask.Fundamentalists ( evangelists) for example are in their mind, the only ones that are right in their beliefs, and some even argue that Catholics and Anglicans are all condemned to Hell.
    http://www.religioustolerance.org/chr_defn3.htm
    http://www.unhinderedliving.com/christiandef.html and especially here http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Christian
    Personally, I'd ditch your flatmate before you wake up one morning to find her standing over you with a sharp object, chanting and ready to "save" you. That dig about your deceased relatives is not very christian as well.

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  • by EcoTechGeek - 5-MeO-DMT on November 8th, 2008

    EcoTechGeek - 5-MeO-DMT

    3000 people saw him die, but only 1 saw him "rise" from the grave? Do you know the definition of the word - revelation?

    All the books you mention were written about 300 years after Christs death. There are NO books written by ANYONE that was an actual first hand eye witness.

    " EVERY national church or religion has established itself by pretending some special mission from God, communicated to certain individuals. The Jews have their Moses; the Christians their Jesus Christ, their apostles and saints; and the Turks their Mahomet; as if the way to God was not open to every man alike.

    Each of those churches shows certain books, which they call revelation, or the Word of God. The Jews say that their Word of God was given by God to Moses face to face; the Christians say, that their Word of God came by divine inspiration; and the Turks say, that their Word of God (the Koran) was brought by an angel from heaven. Each of those churches accuses the other of unbelief; and, for my own part, I disbelieve them all.

    As it is necessary to affix right ideas to words, I will, before I proceed further into the subject, offer some observations on the word 'revelation.' Revelation when applied to religion, means something communicated immediately from God to man.

    No one will deny or dispute the power of the Almighty to make such a communication if he pleases. But admitting, for the sake of a case, that something has been revealed to a certain person, and not revealed to any other person, it is revelation to that person only. When he tells it to a second person, a second to a third, a third to a fourth, and so on, it ceases to be a revelation to all those persons. It is revelation to the first person only, and hearsay to every other, and, consequently, they are not obliged to believe it.

    It is a contradiction in terms and ideas to call anything a revelation that comes to us at second hand, either verbally or in writing. Revelation is necessarily limited to the first communication. After this, it is only an account of something which that person says was a revelation made to him; and though he may find himself obliged to believe it, it cannot be incumbent on me to believe it in the same manner, for it was not a revelation made to me, and I have only his word for it that it was made to him."

    Thomas Paine, The Age of Reason, 1795

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  • by Dr Jones on November 5th, 2008

    Dr Jones

    Your "Christian" flatmate sounds like an Evangelical Protestant who believes that you have to have faith in Jesus and be "saved".

    There are three main types of Christian. Roman Catholics, Protestants and Orthodox. A few extreme Protestants try and use the term "Christian" in a narrow and exclusive way.

    Generally, Protestants believe in salvation by faith and Catholics believe in salvation by good works although this discinction is not rigid and many Catholicsand Protestants believe in both.

    Most Protestants and Catholics would probably argue that their religion increases your chance of going to Heaven, but is not essential.

    My own view is that Heaven and Hell are myths. The Bible says that Heaven is a place up in the sky and that Hell is a place under the ground.It also was written by people who thought that the world was flat.

    You should also be aware that Islamic Fundamentalists believe that Christians (including your flatmate) will burn in Hell for not being Muslims.

    I suggest that you would be better off if you do not worry too much about Christianity.

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  • by 444 on November 2nd, 2008

    444

    You must seek out salvation on your own, not by what others tell you.

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  • by Anonymous on October 19th, 2008

    Anonymous

    It is true that how we live influences the quality of our lives; our lives will be better if we do what is right, and our lives will be worse if we insist on doing what is wrong. The Bible warns that "the way of the unfaithful is hard" (Proverbs 13:15).

    But the Bible makes it clear that life doesn't end with the grave. After we die we will continue to live, either in that place of happiness the Bible calls heaven or in that place of anguish the Bible calls hell. Jesus warned, "Do not be afraid of those who kill the body but cannot kill the soul. Rather, be afraid of the One who can destroy both soul and body in hell" (Matthew 10:28).

    Don't gamble with your soul any longer—which is what you are doing right now. Instead, I pray you will come to realize that God loves you and you are valuable to Him. He loves you so much that He wants you to spend eternity with Him in heaven. He loves you so much that He sent His only Son into the world to die for your sins on the cross.

    Don't let pride, or a desire to be independent, or anything else keep you from giving your life to Christ. You need Him, both for this life and the next. The Bible says, "Whoever believes in the Son has eternal life, but whoever rejects the Son will not see life" (John 3:36).

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  • by christiansoldier on October 18th, 2008

    christiansoldier

    Firstly, not all who profess to be Christians, are Christians.

    Is Hell a real place? Yes. God's Word makes that clear, despite that some 'christians' are uncomfortable with it and figuratively rip those pages out of their Bibles.

    As for your flatmate, relating specifically to you, your relatives, or any given person, only God determines who will burn in hell.

    The Bible teaches that there is only one way to have eternal life in the presence of God, and that is through His Son, Jesus Christ.

    IHS,

    Bruce
    http://christiansoldiersonline.org

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  • by Thinker on August 25th, 2008

    Thinker

    Please tell your Christian flatmate to read Matthew 22:37-40 and to learn what it means and to put it into practice.

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  • by Rude Bear Ready for Winter on June 16th, 2008

    Rude Bear Ready for  Winter

    This is a very compressed (but accurate) summery of the Christian faith.

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  • by -_You Can Leave Your Hat On....- on May 6th, 2008

    -_You Can Leave Your Hat On....-

    She sounds like one evil, nasty cat! Tell her, as a christian, she should be more tactful, less judgemental, more caring and less superior - or she wont get to heaven!

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  • by DBM on May 6th, 2008

    DBM

    Yeah, it is what we believe. I know it sounds harsh, but its the truth.

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  • by katydid15 on May 6th, 2008

    katydid15

    Certainly not this Christian.

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  • by Anonymous on May 6th, 2008

    Anonymous

    No! No one, but God has the right to tell you where you are going to go. His followers do not have the right to judge you. If you believe in this faith than they should practice the right way. Tell her next time, that all sins are created equal and her judging you is not better than you not believing, that will shut her up!!!

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  • by Slipshod Wombat and Co. on January 20th, 2007

    Slipshod Wombat and Co.

    that ain't what they belive, i do not think. it may just be intimidation

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  • by Nickeyboom on January 15th, 2007

    Nickeyboom

    ok so unless you and your family members are rapest, murdering theives, none of you are going to hell. If you are good people then you have nothing to worry about, God knows every one in their own hearts. Only God shall judge you, no one else has that power over you. Those who are without sin them selves shall cast the fist stone.

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  • by kaddiysh on December 28th, 2006

    kaddiysh

    Anybody can say they're a Christian, this doesn't make them so. Therefore, finding out what Christians believe is irrelevant.

    The question you should be asking is what does GOD say about hell, because HE is the ONLY one who can judge you or your relatives.

    Here's what Jesus (God in the flesh) said about hell:

    Matt 10:28 "...Fear him which is able to destroy both soul and body in hell."

    Luke 16:23 "...In hell he lift up his eyes, being in torments..."

    Mark 9:43 "...It is better for thee to enter into life maimed, than having two hands to go into hell, into the fire that never shall be quenched."

    Matt 23:33 "Ye serpents, ye generation of vipers, how can ye escape the damnation of hell?"

    These scriptures do in fact show that unbelievers do suffer in hell but I've got some good news and it has nothing to do with your car insurance.

    Jesus also said, "For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish (in hell), but have everlasting life." John 3:16

    I admit some Christians can be really insensitive sometimes and come off as being judgemental but if your Flatmate cared enough about you and was willing to risk your friendship to tell you the truth then she is a true friend and you should consider her words in light of what The Bible says about hell.

    You can get more information on how to get to heaven and escape hell here: http://www.3LevelsofSalvation.com

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  • by tattoomama23 on December 19th, 2006

    tattoomama23

    The Bible says I am the way the truth and the light, no man cometh unto the Father but by me.. So yes that is what Christians believe. Christians are called so because they are believers in Christ. As a Christian, I believe this, but I also believe in trying to get people to she this without, throwing it in their face or trying to scare them into believing. Jesus is loving and doesnt want us to fear or hurt.He just wants us to believe that he came to this earth and he died and was resurrected and is now in heaven and will return to get all the believers one day. If you believe this then you are destined for heaven. You dont have to live a flawless life, but in our love for God we try not to sin, but we all do, even Christians, for we all fall short of the glory of God.

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  • by Jeffers on August 11th, 2009

    Jeffers

    That's what some Christians believe. Fear not. If it's true you'll be in VERY good company...

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  • by Randoley on May 10th, 2009

    Randoley

    That is what Christians Believe, if they believe what the Bible says.

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  • by Life Not Faith on May 10th, 2009

    Life Not Faith

    Ask her to forgive you. Lets see just how christian she is.

    Besides what does her exposing her insecurities to you really matter. She's deluded and and her own irrational fears drive her to externalise these delusions by trying to make you feel bad.

    Just remind her that her fears aren't your fears and she needs to grow up.

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  • by Chubbychaser84 on May 10th, 2009

    Chubbychaser84

    Well, they couldn't exactly say you would only go to hell if you were a Christian or they would have no followers!

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  • by killdrphil - reasonable for a madman on February 3rd, 2009

    killdrphil - reasonable for a madman

    Time to move out. Or bury her in the backyard. One of the two.

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  • by dumdum on November 1st, 2008

    dumdum

    Your roommate may want to go back to bible; she seems to have missed some rather pertient traits of being a christian. Myself, I would look for someone else to share my life with.

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  • by CaptainHarley adores his life penguin on November 1st, 2008

    CaptainHarley adores his life penguin

    Not all Christians, no. Many, many Christians believe in God's love, and that the Bible is 100% correct when it says that, "God is love."

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