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Talk about your vision of the future, and the amount of time you expect to be together then -- tell her what she means to you -- and ask her what "compromise" needs to be made in order to get to the vision. If you can't compromise -- end it. My gf and I went through this -- the compromise we reached is that we see each other 4 times a year, and spend at least 10 weeks together each year. (That's 10 weeks in total for the year). My schedule is much more flexible than hers, so I spend more time at her place.
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unless you intend to get back to a short distance relationship, i can't advise you to keep it up at all.
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So you'd rather her be miserable and unhappy just so you can keep a girlfriend you never see? That's really selfish of you. A relationship goes both ways, not just one way. If she's not into it, the relationship isn't even at it's full potential. Why even bother? You have to let her come to her conclusion and see if hers matches yours. If it doesn't, it's time to go.
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One of you needs to move (relocate).
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