A girl i know flirted with me all spring-most of summer and i didn't respond much. she went out of her way so many times to talk to me but i was to shy-did hurt her feelings? i hope not..she is not mad.if she is what can i do to make up? i do like her!
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Grow some nads or screw your pillow forever. Your choice.
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If you are no longer talking to her, I suggest you send her an IM or e-mail that says something along the lines of, "Hi. We haven't talked in a while. I really miss talking to you. How are you?" Seriously, if I flirted with a guy all of spring and most of summer and he didn't respond much, I would feel as though he was not interested. If I liked him and later found an e-mail that said something along those lines, I would melt. Maybe she is different. Try it, though. It might work.
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Yes you did hurt her feelings. It's better to be acknowledged than to be ignored. She's probably not mad because she wants to give 'second chances' or letting it go. You should write something or email her a message. You should also try talking to her.
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more than likely, you did hurt her feelings, but she's (correct me if I'm wrong) probably the type that doesn't want other people to feel guilty because of her. I think you should apologize to her and continue being really good friends with her. if you meant you do "like like" her, then wait a while to see if she still flirts with you and then ask her out. but otherwise, a good friend could be just as good
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That's happened to me before and it was a thing that I can't really let go. It was kind of romantic in my point-of-view. the setting is in the last dayof school and I was ready to go to my last class. This really cute girl asked me in the most sweetest way ever. But the thing is that I was to shy to ask. I quicly ran itno the classroom hiding from her. She was one of my best friends too. I haven't seen her since then but time came when she found me on MySpace. I've also been hearing rumors from close friends that she talks about me a lot me in school. I would like to give her, as well as myself, a second chance because it was so unexpected. I now talk to her a lot and try to build that really good connection we once had before. I have apologized to her and she accepted my apology. My advice is just talk to her or message her on email or MySpace and just apologize and try to explain everything. Telling the truth is better than keeping something thats killing you inside to say it.
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Just say "I'm sorry I didn't say much to you before. I had a lot on my mind. Can I buy you dinner tonight and make it up to you? (Then you better figure out quick what it was you had on your mind in case she asks! Shouldn't be hard - everyone has a load of stuff on their mind, right?)
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I find the best way for me to contact anyone is face-to-face or by e-mail. By E-mail you can say what you want to say and profread it before sending it. In face-to-face, don't be afraid if you know she likes you and go for it. Go get her before it is too late. :-)
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