sounds like it - find a girl that's down with that you're set

You are the only person who can truthfully answer that question. When I was a teenager, I desperately wanted to "be with a girl and have a family." And had "liked" many girls in the past. For me, I wanted that wife and family because that's what my family expected of me. Deep down, I'd been aware that I was gay from the time I was 3 or so... Even before I knew what it was, I knew I was attracted to men. I loved the things that made women beautiful, but there was never any "attraction." I did the "right" thing and got engaged to the "right" girl, but it came down to being honest to myself... Luckily, even in the throes of my teenage hormones, I just couldn't have sex with her, or love her as anything other than a friend. I saved both of us a lot of heartbreak. You should be asking yourself if you desire to be with a girl because it's what you think you should do, or because you honestly are emotionally and sexually attracted to women. If you are attracted to both males and females sexually, you are most likely bi-sexual. If you are attracted to the idea of being with a female, but are mostly or solely sexually attracted to men, you are most likely gay. Take some time to honestly examine your attractions. I'm assuming you're young. Don't feel the rush to define yourself until you are sure the definition is correct. It could save you and others a lot of heartache. Also, be aware that a family doesn't have to come by marriage and biology. Many gay and lesbian couples adopt and have wonderfully fulfilling families. Good luck with you journey of discovery.