I'm 23 and finishing a degree in Geology at Oregon State University. The problem I have is that I do not have a girlfriend because I am too shy to say something to any cute girl that I see. Does anybody have any ideas on how I can get girls to notice me?
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JD_Patzer
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If they aren't noticing you is obviously because you lack that "whatever-it-is" that girls are attacted to naturally; this said, my advise to you is to make yourself noticed by talking. Talk to them, but don't "come on" to them; you do that later, when a girl you like begins to show a romantic interest in you.
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You have to get involved with social activities, either co-ed team sports, political clubs, student organizations, the college radio station, hiking club, skiing club, theatre club -- something -- if you are interested in something -- people will find you more interesting. This is important: go where the girls go. Chess clubs and computer labs don't usually cut it. All that failing -- online personals -- there are plenty of shy girls out there, trolling for dates on craiglist.
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sounds like you need the same dating help that i took. search double your dating on google. until then remember this. 1. attractive women are aproached my men who want them all the time. put yourself in her shoes and you will learn something. 2. do you want a relationship? one night stand? new friend? think about what you want or youll never get it. 3. act with self respect, authority and strength. these are three characterstics that women respond to. 4. be funny and slightly cocky at the same time eg she sais 'youre a nice guy' you say 'starting with the complements already' so go out with your mates this weekend at get 5 phone numbers at the least.
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Stand around and look cool, slightly aloof but slightly observant, and confident. You don't have to say anything. Also girls pay alot of attention to footwear..if the above doesn't work too well, you should buy a pair of stylish shoes that you haven't seen other guys wear, or hat etc...if you're by yourself girls will approach you. I have other ideas, but it depends on what kind of girl you're trying to talk to.
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