ANSWERS: 4
  • Good point. Whereas he may have taken advantage of a situation, you had to have wanted it at some level before that night. I have never had a threesome with a drunk person that hadn't discussed or thought about it prior to engaging in the threesome. It's not that he cheated on you, he might have just taken advantage of your willingness for the threesome. If a woman doesn't want to share her man, the man doesn't get shared. Part of me says if you were so drunk to give in to a threesome (quite a jump in a relationship), then you would not be able to recall the specifics of last night. Who knows what went on to get to the threesome point?
  • In my opinion he didn't cheat on you if you were there. Whether or not you were sober, you did agree to do it, right? You cannot blame your boyfriend for your poor judgment while you were drinking. You have to take responsibility for your own actions. You might have to cut back on your drinking if you are making choices that you later regret. He probably did want the threesome to happen. It is a fantasy for many guys.
  • I think you are just as responsible. You should talk to him about how you feel but I can't see that you have the high moral ground here. Hopefully he respects your feelings but an honest conversation sound essential. If you can't have one (a conversation I mean) with your boyfriend (not fiance?) then think hard about marriage.
  • question is did you enjoy it? now you lived out one of his fantasies try to get him to live out one of yours. you can asy you dont have any but you'd just be lying to your self.

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