Can a 16 year old girl be with a 28 year old man if she has her mothers consent and her mother has costody of her

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• That may be your view but it isn't the law.

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  by lastwraith on January 14th, 2008

• Alabama-Second-degree rape for someone age 16 or older to have sexual intercourse with someone between age 12 and 16, when the actor is at least two years older. Penalty 2-20 years
  Arizona-Sexual conduct with a minor to engage in sexual intercourse with someone under age 18.
  California-Anyone who engages in an act of unlawful sexual intercourse with a person under age 18 who is more than three years younger than the actor is guilty of either a misdemeanor or a felony....
  Do I need to continue?

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  by Gracin the Strange on January 14th, 2008

• Here is a link you might want to check out http://www.cga.ct.gov/2003/olrdata/jud/rpt/2003-R-0376.htm

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  by Gracin the Strange on January 14th, 2008

• "Alabama-Second-degree rape for someone age 16 or older to have sexual intercourse with someone between age 12 and 16, when the actor is at least two years older. Penalty 2-20 years"
  OK - Not applicable
  
  Arizona - nope, you lose again "# It is a defense to a prosecution pursuant to section 13-1404 or 13-1405 that the person was the spouse (legally married AND cohabiting) of the other person at the time of commission of the act...
  # F. It is a defense to a prosecution pursuant to section 13-1405 if the victim is fifteen, sixteen or seventeen years of age, the defendant is under nineteen years of age or attending high school and is no more than twenty-four months older than the victim and the conduct is consensual."
  
  CA - "Anyone who engages in an act of unlawful sexual intercourse with a person under age 18 who is more than three years younger than the actor is guilty of either a misdemeanor or a felony....
  Again - not applicable.
  
  Yeah, please continue...

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  by lastwraith on January 14th, 2008

• Read your own link please:
  
  "The age of consent varies by state, with most states, including Connecticut, setting it at age 16. The age of consent in other states ranges from ages 14 to 18."

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  by lastwraith on January 14th, 2008

• It seems you condone older people praying on the naivety of children which makes you abominable in my book. I sure hope you don't live anywhere near me and feel sorry for anyone who does.

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  by Gracin the Strange on January 14th, 2008

• Oh don't pull that crap on me. I don't condone anything, I just know how to read. She needs advice, let's at least get her the right information. Seems like there are enough issues for her to deal with without every random person passing judgments.
  Sheesh.

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  by lastwraith on January 14th, 2008

• I agree with lastwraith on this one. The facts are that in some countries and US states, it isn't illegal.

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  by Carmella on January 14th, 2008

• Appreciated, though you would think the laws would actually speak for themselves once in a while.

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  by lastwraith on January 14th, 2008

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• http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Marriageable_age#Americas

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  by lastwraith on January 14th, 2008

• I'm glad everyone has an opinion but you guys really need to check the laws...

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  by lastwraith on January 14th, 2008

• Good reference, thank you.

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  by Yarnlady is happy every day on January 14th, 2008

• Welcome

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  by lastwraith on January 14th, 2008

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• Basically the same as here I guess.

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  by lastwraith on January 14th, 2008

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• I don't entirely disagree but punctuation would be nice.

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  by lastwraith on January 14th, 2008

• you were absolutely right sorry about that

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  by Anonymous on January 14th, 2008

• Eh, it's fine. I'm tired too. ;)

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  by lastwraith on January 14th, 2008

• Have A Lovely!

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  by Anonymous on January 14th, 2008

• you too, later

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  by lastwraith on January 14th, 2008

• It isn't rape in some states and countries as far as I can tell, it's perfectly legal. Plus, the question doesn't specify it's a sexual relationship they're having.

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  by Carmella on January 14th, 2008

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• Not necessarily.

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  by Carmella on January 14th, 2008

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• It is indeed quite the age diff. I grant you that.

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  by lastwraith on January 14th, 2008

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• That's fine, everything is ok there:
  Ohio is 16 as specified by Section 2907.04 of Ohio legislation. However there exists a close in age exception where an offender can be charged only if 18 years of age or older. However in that case, it is possible for both minors to be charged as "unruly" if brought to court {§ 2151.022}.
  
  2907.04 Unlawful sexual conduct with minor.
  
  (A) No person who is eighteen years of age or older shall engage in sexual conduct with another, who is not the spouse of the offender, when the offender knows the other person is thirteen years of age or older but less than sixteen years of age, or the offender is reckless in that regard.

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  by lastwraith on January 14th, 2008

• that good?

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  by lastwraith on January 14th, 2008

• so are you saying its ok in the state of ohio? i didnt understand the whole thing you put. first you said it was ok then it said something bout sex with a minor.

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  by jsr....o7 on January 15th, 2008

• Age of consent is 16 in Ohio and the girl is 16....so yep, whatever they do is fine. They are just saying that if someone is under 16, the other person has to be over 18...etc etc.

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  by lastwraith on January 15th, 2008

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• Not necessarily true....

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  by lastwraith on January 14th, 2008

• The question doesn't mention whether it's a sexual relationship or not.

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  by Carmella on January 14th, 2008

• agreed, plus it doesn't even matter depending on the state. It is distasteful though.

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  by lastwraith on January 14th, 2008

• Not as bad as the one a couple of weeks ago An 18 year old with a man in his 50s. That is offensive.

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  by Firebrand on January 14th, 2008

• Haha, that ain't illegal but man....that's rough.

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  by lastwraith on January 14th, 2008

• What's offensive about it? I'm unsure how it's personally affecting you, FB.

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  by Carmella on January 14th, 2008

• Isn't it obvious? That guy was a great catch and some young whippersnapper took him out of the dating pool ;)

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  by lastwraith on January 14th, 2008

• The man was old enough to be the girls grandfather , I believe I have a right to an opinion and I find that rather sick, as did every other person that answered the question. I would not query your opinion and I believe I have a right to mine. I think it is close to peodophilia on the mans behalf. The man was old enough to be MY father never mind the girls.It has no personal effect on me, I am not sure why it should have a personal affect on you either.

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  by Firebrand on January 14th, 2008

• Yeah, but just think of all those bars she can get into now. And he almost gets an AARP discount on any lodging they require! I think you are both missing the benefits of this relationship.
  Also, I didn't realize I was among fellow freecyclers! Woot.

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  by lastwraith on January 14th, 2008

• It doesn't have a personal effect on me, and that's exactly why I'm not out to judge them.
  And lmao@ lastwraith- I think you're in the lead for ''best newcomer award''. :)

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  by Carmella on January 14th, 2008

• We were asked for an opinion on an 18 year old girl and a 56 year old man and that was why we gave opinions. We did not just jump in and judge half way through a situation.The girl asked herself. If people do not want honest opinions they should not ask. She was not offended and stood her ground.

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  by Firebrand on January 14th, 2008

• This is what is happening on AB people are no longer allowed to have opinions that do not seem to agree with what is required from the "Committee"?

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  by Firebrand on January 14th, 2008

• Easy Fire, it was a 28yr old man and 16 year old girl. The 18yo girl and 50yo man is an unrelated story.
  
  And actually, i think the OP is long done with this thread, haha.
  
  As for my status, that's sweet. My specialty seems to be coming in real hot, pissing people off, and then calming most of em down and making friends. It's odd to be sure.

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  by lastwraith on January 14th, 2008

• No Wraith we were talking about a two week old question if you read back up the comment thread. My comments I assure you, if you look for the question, were some of the nicer ones. Most people were very rude .You are not annoying me. Only censorship from within the ranks annoys me. Even then that is an overstatement they do not annoy me>I just find people trying to tell me what I should think, a little irritating.Personally I could care less if girls want to go with guys old enough to be their grandfathers. Just it is best if they do not ask for others opinions, just get on with it.:)

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  by Firebrand on January 14th, 2008

• Ooh, my bad, I misread!
  
  Haha, agree on that last sentence, I'd rather it not be advertised to me either.

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  by lastwraith on January 14th, 2008

• No problem :) Night :)

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  by Firebrand on January 14th, 2008

• nighty

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  by lastwraith on January 14th, 2008

• @FB: You're missing the point. Nobody is saying that people can't have an opinion that doesn't agree with the committee (for starters there is no ''committee''), I simply asked you to expand on why you find a situation that has absolutely no effect on you ''offensive''. That's a far cry from imaginary committees full of people telling you what you should think.

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  by Carmella on January 14th, 2008

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