(Dumb question, sorry) What advice would you give to a lonely girl (not quite desperate) who really isn't that good looking, but wants to get some guy's attention(romantically)? (Ehh-awkward.)
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I could have asked that same question 3 years ago but now I'm engaged with 2 kids to the most unexpected & unimaginable guy ever! Love finds you at the most random times even when you don't believe it will. & I bet you're being hard on yourself about your appearance. Good luck xXx
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Confidence has a lot to do with getting and keeping attention. But- the guy MUST appreciate personality, charm, intelligence, sense of humor or else NO girl has a chance.
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are you a teenager? Ahh, dont worry about it. When i was in highschool i wasn't the cute girl. I turned out fine. Being in high school was the worst time in my life...is sucked so badly. I dont know what to tell you. because i dont know you or what you look like or who the guy is...dont stress about it too much though. It will drive you crazy...i know!
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ok this may sound old fashioned but really just be yourself...be open and honest about who you are and above all DO NOT pretend to be someone or something your not ...we guy's can pick up on that very fast and its a turn off and what ever you do don try to hard its not a good look on either girls or guys ...you'll be right ..love always hits you straight between the eyes when you least expect it and you just never know it could be headed your way right now ....good luck !
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Of course, I could say that it doesn't matter... I know it does to some. The most attractive trait I find in women if that they are comfortable with themselves. They also are not bitter or regretful that they missed out on exceptional outward beauty. I like to have fun with women, they can't always be worried that they don't match up. Even the hotties have horrible lives. As long as you strive to improve yourself, you are a winner. The right guys for you are out there. They might not be wrapped in hand rubbed leather, but well- conditioned vinyl. Good luck! Be HAPPY!
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Just be your authentic beautiful you.
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you said: "but... authentic me isn't beautiful" I'm not talking about PHYSICAL beauty. I'm talking about inner beauty. Just be REAL & friendly & fun to be with - THAT will get his attention.
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HIt up the local church. There's a good reasons(s) for this. 1. If they are true followers of the Bible, they'll not try and bed you within the next few weeks. 2. They'll be more interested in your soul (But money is also wanted (10% of gross, not net thanks!) 3. You get a "Spirit" of helping the less fortunate and that's always a good feeling! 4. You can see who might be a worthwhile mate for future life.
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