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i know something thats 101% sure to work , ur a good buddy to be helping him like that , you should be proud of ur self , well my answer is god,tell him jesus can fill the void ,it worked for me , take him to church, a pentecotal church , tel him jesus loves him & there is nothing to great for god to do, , good luck, and dont give up , ur the one he is being open with.
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Don't give up on him, but know that we can't help anyone unless they're willing to help themselves. I would encourage him to seek professional help.
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Honesty time now I call those kind of people Emotional Vampires and he sure is sucking the life out of you. Let go mate and walk away, since when did you become responsible for his life? There is being a friend and there is a point that has been overstepped and that happened a long time ago. Step back and see what happens, if he wants to kill himself he will but while he keeps talking about it there is very little chance he will really go through with it. 3 of my friends committed suicide and there was no indication it was ever gonna happen, it was such a shock to us all because we thought they were happy. Rarely do people who kill themselves talk about it.
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Really I look at it like this. Suicide is a personal choice, but people will often plan their suicide, then latch onto whatever they can to give them a reason to stay alive. If it's not you than it will be someone or something else, all your doing is being his anchor.
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People who are not emotionally/mentally together and need meds will usually behave in a manner that is stressful to others around them. Their crazy, and don't know it. Your sane, and you know something is wrong. The question is do you want to invest your time & stress for friend. The stress never will never leave, and you will feel drain at the various stages of highs & lows of crazy. My personal answer is this...leave. It'll always be one sided for those types. If you think your going to help your friend your not, help out his or her folks/family, by talking to em or run an errand for them. They are the ones who will suffer most from their loved ones state. However, I'd just keep a distance from the friend.
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How about getting someone else in the know so youre not shouldering this all alone? another friend? neighbor? mom/dad/sis/bro/aunt/uncle/church figure/Doctor? thre has to be SOMEONE else in hios life that can you can put your head together with....
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