Im 15 and my boyfriend and I have been going out for 3 weeks. He says he really wants to have sex with me. Should I or should I wait? Or is he just playing me, any advice?
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if he would ask you that after 3 weeks thats probably all hes after. i waited 3 months with my last two bfs and they more or less dumped me after they got what they wanted. if it were me i would wait or just dump him but its your life
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No advice. I can't tell from the information that you have given if he is using you or not...but what guy doesn't want to have sex?
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Please wait. You are only 16--are you ready for the emotional and physical consequences of sex? Ready to potentially get pregnant? And you've only been dating this guy for 3 weeks!
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Wait a while, if thats all he talks about then you know that is all he wants.
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Ummm probably should wait. I mean, you are 15, and while people can have sex and make due at that age, I still advise against it. Especially after 3 weeks. The guy could be using you at that point. Seriously. Make sure it's the right thing to do before jumping into a situation like that. If he leaves you because you don't want to have sex now, that will also show that is what he is after. If he doesn't, maybe he's not such a bad guy.
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3 weeks? If he's pressuring you for sex at week 3 than I'd suggest you just get rid of him.
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If I were you, I would wait. Particularly because you've only been seeing eachother for three weeks. Just say no and see how he takes it. How he reacts to that should have plenty of answers.
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If you have to ask, what's that telling you? That decision is up to YOU and you alone. Tell him to get lost if he gets too pushy. Then he IS using you.
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15 is too young. Wait, make a guy work for your affection. I believe most men don't wise up till their 30's It's really not so wonderful for a girl until their much older. If you do use a condom. Good luck!
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are you a virgin? either way, it seems kind of soon.
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oh please!!! He is 15 all he wants id sex... sex he wants, sex he can brag about... sex sex sex. What do you want, that is the question. Do what you want. At 15, do whta youi need to feel good aobut yoursself. I highly doubt fulfilling one boys horney needs is going to make you feel good int he long run.
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The fact that you are asking this question, whether it be "out loud" or just in your head, shows how unsure you are. Even the tiniest whisper in your head like that shouldn't be ignored. Trust your gut. Trust your worth. You'll know when it's the right time... and the right person.
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if your boyfriend wants sex so badly tell him to go and find a whore who he has to pay to have sex with. why should you give it up to him just because he asks for it. have him patronize some woman who really needs the money to support her children and drug habit.
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If you have any doubt at all, and just by asking the question, I would say you do, Don't sleep with him. Besides the fact that you really are too young, you've only been with this guy for three weeks. Sex is not to be taken lightly at your age. Dont' make yourself just an object to this guy. You are worth so much more.
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3 weeks...you barely know him number 1... number 2.... your young.... he might seem like the right one... but rarely is your first one true love really your one true love.... never know...you might wanna wait for the one your marry.....one true love 23..... yeah there you go...he will be the best ^_-..... but right now...trust me....3 weeks....no.....I wouldn't even think of asking till i've knowon you more than a year..... he isn't the one just cause he is trying to tempt you in so fast....chances are he will get what he wants and then leave and call you a skank..... it's not worth it just yet..... and trust me agian...after he tells every one you "put out" you will get alot of guys trying for you.... and it will truely be hard to find mr right... plus if this is your first time.... let it be special with someone that can prove he will be there at a later date.... not someone who you've only dated 3weeks
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Of course he wants to have sex with you, and it is really your choice what you decide to do. However, if you would like my advice I would ask you to please wait...the effects of becoming that intimate with someone in a situation where you have no security that they will be there for you (as you don't know him well) is extremely dangerous to your emotional well being. I hope that you take care. Good luck.
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If you are asking the questions, your are having reservations & not ready. Follow your heart it will never let your down. He's looking for sex and you are looking for a relationship & it sound like it's not there yet.
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if you are not ready just say no. many teenagers can feel worse about sex aftrewards because it can feel like you only did it for the other person, or they only used you for sex, just wait till your ready
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all lads want sex at his age. If you want to wait, wait. If he really cares about you, he'll wait with you. :)
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it honestly sounds like thats the reason he is going out with you.... if he likes u 4 who u are not for what u can give... u'll find out so i think u should wait.. until ur ready
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he's such a freaking horn dog! say no! god! if he wants to have sex so early just think about what that can do to you? to your rep? to your self respect? i've learned the hard way about going all the way to soon and it hurts!
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Change boy friend!!!! 3 weeks is not a lot!!!! Find better one!!!!!!!
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one word . WAIT.
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if you even asking this question is maybe you are not ready. it is ok to wait it has so much dangers to having sex even if you are using protection,remeber condoms are not 100% safe.
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PLEASE wait.
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You should wait really im ur age about to be 16 in september and im waiting for the rite person but even if u do go thru with it just make sure that you dont do it with anyone else because you dont kno wat people has these days and make sure u use protection but that's if u do. If u dont thats even better so think before u make a really big mistake of ur life so plz use ur head ight bye
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it totally depands on u if ur ready tell him if not tell him 2 2 visit if he loves u he will wait x x x
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WAIT!!!!! only three weeks. he is not a good boyfriend if he is pressuring you to do somehthing you are unsure about.
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i would wait and by the sounds of it he is a player.. Please wait hun
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sweetheart. he is SOOOO playing you. I hate to say that...but he is. 3 WEEKS? 3 months MAYBE! but 3 WEEKS? something smells fishy.
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3 weeks??? go get tested first. if you're not ready, then wait.
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Wait don't have sex with him! ur 15 and three weeks~ its not like ur marrying him!!
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