that's a big step - does she finger your butt now or would this be a HUGE surprise to her? you have to slowly introduce the concept of you taking a dildo in your ass if it's a huge surprise, then introduce it through porn or erotic literature - then you could say things like - Wow, that would interesting! or What do you think of that?

Words would be my first suggestion.

just go for it start by sounding her out a little or watching girl/girl porn with strapon action and tell her you think she would look sexy wearing a strapon do it if you dont you will regret it

It took me nine years to voice this one to my wife. I sort of beat around the bush, asked her to rub my taint region durring a blowjob, etc... I didn't think I'd ever get the courage to ask. One day, We got really drunk and started to play. She was rubbing my butthole, and I pushed back so her finger went in a little, ahe retracted it and appologised. I insisted it felt great and wanted more. From there, it was a few conversations away. I finally broke the strap-on news by forcing myself to. I ordered one online, and set up shipping so it would arrive on a day she was home from work. I forced myself to either say it, or be asked what the hell this was when she opened it up. She was reluctant at first, but eventually realised I wanted it because it felt good. I hope this helps. I also tried this for other things, I wrote a list of some things I want to try. I asked her to do the same. I threw some decoys down, some stuff I wanted to try, and the big one I wanted. I said we'll trade lists, and say nothing. We can VETO anything on the list, but have to give a valid reason. Her just seeing that you want to try something is the first big step. Good luck!

The only thing I can think about in that situation is for you to purchase a strap on and when it arrives, tell her is is for you to use on her. Then, later on, one day, perhaps after some drinks, ask her to try it on, just to see how it looks on her. Tell her she looks cute with it on...and from then on, start role playing. Once with the strap on on her, and a few drinks, role playing will work, and she will end up doing you. I would purchase the strap on, as if it was meant for you to use on her. That would be the excuse to get it in the B-room. I would be scared about being penetrated by anything, but if that is your thing, try my suggestion.

Easy! Do what I do. Slip on a pair of white frilly, see through knickers. A pair of stockings and suspender belt. A bright pink, pleated, satin mini skirt with a pair of pink & white 5" heels. A shiny white satin & lace pussy bow blouse with girly ruffled cuffs. A purple & fuchia metallic eyeshadow and a gorgeous Maybelline pink water shine lipgloss. Sprsy your neck & wrists with your favourite perfume. Then flash your long feminine eyelashes and tell her you're gagging for it. Sara.

just tell her

My husband asked me the same question and I thought the worst. He laughed and said he expected that, but then he explained some facts about it. All in all, the least I could do was try it once, so we did it. We have been doing it almost weekly ever since. My suggestion is to give her the information about male anal/prostate stimulation. My husband gave me a book called Anal Pleasure and Health, for Men. It dispelled many myths and misconceptions about male anal stimulation. After reading the book my attitude changed about it. You should check it out. It helped us.

Simple, build her up to it by asking her if she would like to be in charge. Tell her you want to be her whore. I'm looking forward to the time when my husband is riding me hard and one of our friends has his dick up my husbands ass. what a turn on. it hasn't happened yet but it will.

ask

Your wife will think you are gay and will leave you.

I would say you have to play with small didos and plugs before you ask her to actually wear a strapon... so bring toys into the bedroom and when you are doing forplay just play with her ass and if she likes it ask he to do it to you ... then if thats all good you should just ask her to use a strapon so that her hands are free to play with you etc ... thats what we did... it worked fine..

------------------> you need to open up andbe able to talk to her about anything first .;-]

I told my wife. She didn't freak out, but she didn't like the idea. She said it wasn't natural. We haven't talked about it since.