NO I would not

no. im young and if my mum did that to me i would be very insulted. it depends on her age. most girls are interested in sex at young ages these days. just talk about it with her, and advise her against it.

you should add that it does not mow the lawn either (before you freak her out enough so that she runs away). It's probably best to let her make her own mind up about men and what she thinks of them - if you don't you may well cripple her ability to form a relationship of any lasting value. Hate to say it but just because you think men are all pricks does not mean to say they are or that you should tell your daughter they are. Afterall, it wasn't the vibrator that made your kid was it?

glad to see you all said no to the question. have you tried sitting down and just having a chat with her about safe sex, relationships, how boys think about sex ect. i am sure the poor kid is mixed up enough without the introduction of a vibrator and a lecture on the sins of men.

When she wants to explore sex, she will. Having sex kept from her or twisted around by society is unhealthy. So I would advocate the safest course of action, where she can still learn about herself and the rich experience of human sexuality, in the safest possible way. This includes books, courses, discussion groups, support groups, safer sexual practices, meditation, mental imaging, and private practice. I think it's every individuals responsibility to know their own body, physiology, mental and emotional makeup, and what kinds of relationships they find genuinely fulfilling. When someone does not know themselves well, they form the most inappropriate relationships, just out of sheer ignorance. The only way that self-realization can be done is by exploring ourselves as much as possible, and learning from experiences, our own and of others. What is the #1 Safest form of sexual exploration on Earth? There you go.

If you are open to giving her a vibrator, why not teach her about sex, using visual aids if necessary, and explain to her the cons of having sex at a early age. Include the pitfalls of pregnancy, and STD's, and give her as much information as possible. Once you give her the information, you can give her information on why she should refrain from sex, but also merits of masturbation. Teaching her about self gratification, can cause her to go in the direction of having a vibrator, but it is possible that she does noot need it.

No, i would explain the importance of being in a loving relationship instead!

You DON'T need to teach her how to masturbate; she learned that by age five intuitively! What she is WANTING is the interaction and intimacy with someone in the "act"! It's called maturing. Teach her what the RESPONSIBILITY is with THAT and the "tools" she needs to cope with it; like schooling, a job, saving money, responsibility! A "vibrator" is only a band-aid to a forthcoming RUPTURE!

No, I wouldn't.

last year when i was 17 i was bought my first vibrator by my friends for my birthday, i was a virgin, but really wanted to explore my body sexually, i thought i needed a boyfriend to have sex with, but then i was given my vibrator, and it was amazing. Now i dont feel the need to find a boyfriend just to have sex with, i can find someone i truly have feelings for, and feel comfortable with, that is when im ready for sex.

no thats just dumb and misleading. vibrators arent better then any man and if you believe this youve never had a man. masturbation and sex are 2 totally different things. i think youd be better off being open and honest with her, and get her to be with you, then just trying to trick her into believing its bad. educate her the right way. shes gonna do it whether you say it or not.

OMG definately not.

well that sounds like the intro to a porno movie so not at all. She needs to keep it in her pants until shes married. SO many people out there have HIV and AIDS. ive had sex twice and lucky i didnt get it. i made an oath to myself i wouldnt have sex until marriage.

WHAT KIND OF A QUESTION IS THAT???! No I would not I would tell her she has to wait.

no. Soon enough she'd end up very curious about what the real thing is like. Plus, when women start masturbating young, it is harder for them to climax with a partner when they are grown ups.

I think it would embarass the girl and she might have questionable thoughts about her mom.

I don't know that I'd give her a vibrator, but I'd make sure she had access to Deenie by Judy Blume. That book explores masturbation as a healthy, safe form of teen sexual activity. I think it is better to offer the book because it's kind of awkward to tell your kids to masturbate.

I don't know if I would "give" her a vibrator, but I plan on keeping an open forum with my girls. I will express to them the dangers of sex and why it's best to wait until your married, but I would also tell them that it's normal and alright to be curious. I would probably buy them a book that explains in better detail (about masturbation, ect). If they asked though, say, when they're in their late teens... I'd probably buy them one. But a vibrator isn't exactly something you buy a teenage girl for her birthday, lol.

No, that would teach her that sex is just about "getting off" and it is so much more than that. I would teach her that it can be fun and masturbation is tops but, as a teenager sex is about the opposite sex not self satisfaction and giving her a sex toy will not stop her from sleeping with a boy if she finds one she likes. Teach her how to be safe and then you have to trust her to make the right decisions.

this is kinda tricky. as a father i hate the thought of my children learning about sex too early. but, at the same time i think it is a healthy subject and should be taught in great detail. too many young people are uneducated about the facts and consquences of sex. it is as scary as it is fun. the problem is what level of education and maturety is the right time to start an open and frank discussion. I would hope that my children would approch me when they have questions but, i know that more than likely wont happen. to be honest i would rather a young person be given unlimited exploration of self in all forms. if that includes a vibrator to experement with then so be it. it is difficult to define the lines of its okay for him/her at this age or this age. I hope that we as parents can do all we can to prepare them and be as honest as we can. to be honest most of what i learned i taught my self through books, videos,(yes porn) sex ed, and actual experience. which is okay cause i grew up in a sexual atmosphere living in europe. but i found i was far more versed then my counter parts in America when i came back to the States. I would say let her have the vibrator and a long talk and let her explore. its healther than a lot of other options. and at least she is safe and home. but, now you open the door to her privacy, you have to now allow a certain amount of trust and ummmmm, alone time in her room without question and without funny looks, jokes, or anything that could damage her self worth. I find a lot of women have been made to feel bad about themselves for some of the choices they make. so, please be careful and dont make it an issue after the decission is made. and dont let younger syblings ummmm, invade her privacy. it has to be a clear boundry that that is her sancuary away from everyone and NO ONE WILL VIOLATE that unless need by a parent. tell her to play some music cause you can hear a vibrator pretty easy. and you dont want younger ones asking just yet. wow, this is really tough. I wish you the best of luck.

haha hell yea im seventeen and have 3 vibrators and man they are amazing i wish my mom would have gave me one when i was young lmao.