Love is love- However what is a person of that age doing with someone so young? I would be concerned to say the least. Thats like dating your daughter with an age gap like that.

age is not anything other than a number.

I am a 34 year old woman married to a 52 year old man 5 years now. The only problem I see that we have in the age difference is he will definitely pass before me. We have 4 lovely children 2 girls and 2 boys. We love each other, by the way everyone thinks he is 37. See I am keeping him young.

I think it is weird but that is for me-that doesnt mean that it is wrong. My mother is 47 and I am a 28 year old. Just put it into another perspective, if her mother/father were single and started dating a girl close to her age...would she approve? My mom dates guys that are as young as 33 and it grosses me out-and my grandfather is married to a woman who is younger than his youngest daughter and only 3 years older than me...and that is gross to me too! So I cant be with someone that much older than I. I think that 19 yr old girls are still trying to discover themselves and what it means to be a woman....it's a chance to find yourself and experience life...I dont think that 41 year old man will be able to allow the kind of experiences that a girl needs to have to find herself. I say be free now and if it is meant to be wait a few years and see what happens.

Fact from fiction, truth from diction. Sure I am in one. 23 years difference in fact. And so long as your friend and her man can thicken up an not let those who are grossed out, think it is disgusting, or inappropriate stir all in the Koolade they don't know what the flavor is, they should do fine. My fiancee and I have to work out our own happiness, if people are uncomfortable seeing us holding hands etc, that is their problem. Seeing how many people near the same age divorce, break up, and cheat on each other I don't think that has much room for boasting. Maybe what people should spend there time getting worked up over is all these girls being used by one crush after another and not knowing who the baby's daddy is. I do not see my fiancee as a substitute for a daughter I want to boink a nice or anything of the sort. She is far more intelligent than many women I have met years older than she. I sometimes have to remind myself when those grossed out, disgusted, or think it is inappropriate are staring that she is as young as she is. Then to make those who are grossed out etc happy, I give her a big kiss and tell her how much I love her.

If they love each other they do. But I still think that it's kinda of a big age diffrence. I mean, if I was 41 years old I would obviously think that someone that's 19 is to immature to have a relationship with. But as I said, If you love someone, age shouldn't matter.

That depends entirely on the couple.