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  • A year is a pretty long time for him not to have found ANYTHING to do, job-wise. Sometimes a person has to take a job they don't really want to help the greater good. Do you live together? That makes a big difference. If so, does he do the cleaning, make you dinner, etc?? There are lots of factors involved. If he is living with you and showing no interest in helping you out in the home (or out!), it's time to have a serious talk about your future. Maybe that would kick him into gear! Good luck!
  • We do not live together he lives with friends
  • I think that age and situation as well as circumstance plays a huge part into this. Without knowing these things, I cannot give you a good answer that I will be satisfied with. I need more details.
  • Speaking from experience, I think it might be time to cut your losses. A year is a long time to not have a job if you are serious about finding one. It sounds like you have your stuff together and are very ambitious. But it doesn't sound like your boyfriend has either of those things going for him.
  • I agree that a Year is a long time to not not have A job at all, at the very least he could have gotten a retail job (yea they suck but they pay) if not 2. So you may wanna motivate him to get off his ass or decide how important that is to you for him to contribute financialy in comparison to wanting to have him as your bf. If ya ask me it is unfair but you need to decide if its right. If he is keeping the house neat and being a home maker making all the meals cleaning and such might be worth it...if he is sitting on his ass..then maybe time to boot him.

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