Why does love make sane people do and say crazy things?
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mizuiislife
ANSWERS: 15
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Because, in a way, everyone wants love and once they've experienced it personally, it's hard to imagine a life without it. The life before love seems meaningless compared to the life with love. So people struggle to maintain the perfection they feel that they have now that they are in love with someone.
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Because being loved is very important to us. Some are willing to do whatever it takes to get it and keep it.
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Until you fall in love I don't think you can get a full grasp on what your missing (as a whole not as Joe or Jane). Then you get this feeling of fullfillment. Like a missing part of you is finally there and you feel so complete you'd do almost anything not to lose it.
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oh you mean like, "if you leave me i'll kill you" LMAO.
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why do crazy people do and say sane things?
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I'm not sure. I think it's the fear that grows inside them once they fall in love, the fear of being alone again and losing the love that they've always wanted. Once you fall in love, it's hard to go back to the way things were before, and if you're not ready to go back...then you end up doing some things that you normally wouldn't do.
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i think i found, you try so hard, to be too perfect. try too hard to always try and make everything work. there has to be a little room for mistakes. and you have to know how to be able to fix them,and when you cant, and feelings get hurt. you can really hurt each other with bad words. you can really hurt the one/s that you love. especially when you start to lose that bond. that trust.or when you feel let down. it can be a big change. and you cant always fix things. sometimes trying to do that can be a big task. when you feel love, you can really push yourself trying too much for perfection. we are only human beings. we learn from our mistakes. so we really need to make them sometimes.
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It's not only love that does that but sometimes infatuation makes people do and say crazy stuff too. I know from firsthand experience and unfortunately it cost me a very good friend because of it. :(
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Love transcends rationale, which makes sanity an expendable thing.
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Love bypasses sanity. It's a state in which you literally find yourself "out of your mind".
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because when you are in love..nothing else matters at that time...You wake up you think of them, you go to bed you think of the,..and everything you do throughout the day reminds them of you...It makes you temporarily lose yourself..you walk around in a zombie like state just waiting and wanting to see that person again...so when all of a sudden those feelings are not reciprocated..you feel rejected and hurt, and you want to be back where you were before...so you do anything and everything to get their attention...things that you would not normally do
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because it's love. it's not sane. it's something that comes, quite unexpectedly, and stirs our regular daily lives up. think about it...we pass by new people every single day, we can go years without finding love, so that adds up to hundreds, even thousands of people who've passed through our lives and made no impression. so the second you meet someone or see someone who does give us butterflies, or interests us, all ‘saneness’ flies just out the window. then to keep the feeling, to make sure they don't fall through the cracks, we all take on this role of psycho, leech-like lovers who humiliate ourselves and literally become STALKERS and spies and we dont try to hide it, we're like "i saw your bedroom light on at 3 am and a red jetta was parked in your driveway and i've never seen it there before and and and and and and and"... creepy. desperate. irrational. hopelessly and 'sanelessly' BEGGING for love.
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it does'nt it's a myth
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Reduced blood flow to the brain...
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love is a crazy thing
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