Well, I'm not a woman, but I have a girlfriend who has oral sex with me pretty often, and she's said a couple times that she likes to swallow because it makes her feel closer to me. Also, some of my friends have told me that whether they enjoy swallowing is a matter of how much they're attracted to someone. One of my close (platonic) gfs told me that she'll have the urge to swallow a guy's semen when she gets horny. She also admitted that sometimes she'll hook up with a guy and swallow for validation, which is pretty consistent with what I've heard other girls say...some girls get a big self-esteem boost from being able to swallow a guy's semen... Otherwise, I know some girls enjoy it because they like the taste, and others might swallow to please their partners. It all really depends on the girl more than anything else...

Like the first poster said, I do it to feel closer to him, as well as attracted. I also do it cause I find incredibly submissive to him and (as corny as it sounds) it's taking something that came from deep inside him into me, as well as something that's very powerful (life giving).

i can only speak for myself and my close friends...yes a lot of us like to be taken and we prefer guys who are confident and aggressive in the bedroom... i personally enjoy oral sex because when i'm attracted to someone, i want to be close to him, and that usually means having him inside me...i'll just want to hold him close, kiss him and have his penis in my mouth or in my vagina because it just feels so good to be close to him and have him inside of me...swallowing makes me feel the same way...sometimes his cum won't taste as great as i'd like it but i'll still really enjoy it if i'm attracted to him... ...but the thought of swallowing just any random guy is not at all appealing...actually it's pretty scary...i don't think any girl would enjoy it and i think u might have misunderstood your gf about her having oral sex with "random" guys at frat parties...most girls would never just begin sucking a *completely* random guy at some party...we need to feel attracted and comfortable with a guy before we'd ever feel enough of a sexual urge to have oral sex with him...the time it takes for that to happen can vary from girl to girl, but it's usually longer than just a few seconds!

Every woman is different , some are submissive some are dominant and some are equal in the bedroom. Not every one likes or dislikes the same things. I personally am a veyr oral person , but , it goes both ways , what I give , I like in return. I also know several women who are very dominant in their relationships and would certainly not wish to be taken by force. perhaps your partner gets off on telling you about her past exploits? It seems that you really don't know much about her and perhaps you need to sit down and discuss things with her including safe sex practices.

Guys to enjoy swallowing - I know i do!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I think most women enjoy swallowing because of the excitement and sexual intimacy. There's probably no other way to feel the same connection with a guy as when you have him in your mouth and you can swallow his semen! Personally, I also like my boyfriend's taste (he has a light, sweet taste), which is great because in the past, there have been times when I haven't been able to fully enjoy having oral and swallowing because of the guy's taste (which can be TERRIBLE with some guys).

Believe it or not, many girls prefer swallowing than cleaning the mess