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  • i had this problem and there are two things you may be doing wrong: 1) You might actually be too nice. I'm not saying slap a girl around, but you need to not be a mushy guy. be a man and treat a woman with respect and honor, but don't get walked over. I was told just last week by an ex-girlfreidn that she dumped me because i was "too nice and a pushover". 2) You are probably not confident enough. You need to go in for the kill. You can stalk the prey, but you can't close the deal. Be confident and ask for a date. On that date act like she is one the one dating "up", not you. Women dig confident guys. They want to be with the guy who can stand on his own. When I shifted gears on these two points, they started lining up.
  • It could be that you are moving too fast. One thing that always made me run for cover was a guy who wanted to move from point 'a' to 'moving in' before we ever got to know each other. Try letting a relationship develop before making any moves. There is also a possibility that they may perceive a rush to form a relationship as being desperate. Being desperate is a huge turn-off for girls and guys. Again, slow down, ease off, be a friend. This will allow the girls to get to know you, feel comfortable around you and eventually, see you as a potential love interest.

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