My wife is a seemingly quiet and respectful person. But recently, I have learnt that the silence is a cover-up. She cheats on me orally (sex) and now verbally. Am worried this could lead to bigger things. She refuses counseling! What's next for us?
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You are tolerating this behavior so you either continue to let her or you don't. If I understood your question she gives oral sex and has phone sex? Correct? I think you may need to walk to see if she will ever change. Good luck!
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The fact that she is refusing counseling shows that she has no true interest in stopping what she's doing. The whole point of a marital relationship is that it is a commitment to a SINGLE person. If she will not adhere to that standard, then she is not treating you in a way worthy of any wife. people make mistakes, yes, but the point of that is that they correct and learn from those mistakes. If she refuses to correct her ways, then she is saying that she no longer wants to be commited to just you. If she's not willing to give up cheating on you, then she obviously doesn't really care much about you, and it's time to file divorce papers. Walk away, man, the ship's already sinking.
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If she is unwilling to change what she is doing, and you cannot be in a relationship of this kind, it is probably best to end it. The acts themselves are not the real issue, it's the deception and betrayal of doing these things behind your back. Best of luck to you.
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If your wife likes dick in her mouth, why can't it be yours? I mean you probably have a decent sized manhood and no doubt your hygiene is good. Tell her if she is hungry for a cock between her lips that you have one ready for her. How did you find out she is such a two sided person? Did you find some emails?? She has already cheated on you big time. Who knows what kind of STD's she might contract from being with these other guys. I would separate from her at once since she has no remorse and doesn't think there is anything wrong with her behavior.
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Divorce? Do you want to suffer everyday for the rest of your life? Inner turmoil, doubts, and jealousy are not good feelings to be carrying around the rest of your life. They'll bring you to an early grave. And then, not only will she have the boyfriends, but EVERYTHING you've worked for as well. No remorse. No counseling. See ya later.
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It will most likely lead to bigger things. If she sees that you are ok with it, she might try to prepare you for a life as a cuckold. For some men...thats great news.
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