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  • Also,he tells me that he does these things like going through my text messages, and looking what I'm doing on Facebook because he just loves me so much. ....are these red flags...I mean most the junk on facebook is just for friends and I absolutely have nothing going on on the side. Also, I was really happy when he told me he loved me and wanted to be with me for life, but then he got all emotional because I didn't respond by jumping all over the couch. I felt really good and don't know what kind of 'scripted' response he wanted. My head is spinning.....or is this just that crazy part of love when you act like a maniac until the euphoria wears off....thx
  • Dump him. He's a control freak...and you are looking at his good side before marriage. Believe me.
  • well first of all what was your rating on Hot or Not. I got a 9.9 so i was pretty stoked. Also i'd make sure to delete your text messages....and um maybe those comments about pink handcuffs. i'm sure any man wouldnt want to see or hear about that....good luck
  • He is trying to change you and he is jealous. He is saying he loves you to cover up his jealousy. He does care. It might also be true that he loves you. He just needs to learn when to back off. These are just guesses as I do not know him personally. Perhaps it is time to end it.
  • Talk about huge red flags, you do have a right to some privacy. If I were you though I'd delete the text messages, this guy is a control freak.
  • I am having the same issue with my boyfriend! He is always accusing me of doing something shady and I haven't done anything to compromise our relationship. I am sick of fighting over absolutely nothing. I am a very independent woman and I feel as though my boyfriend is trying to control me. I feel for you!
  • Um, I don't get why he isn't a friend of yours on facebook and able to see exactly what all your other FB friends can see. If you are putting out public information then its not snooping if he reads it. Sounds like his friends are giving him a hard time, running to him with tales? Its possible he thinks that being with you is just too good to be true so underneath he's looking for ways to ruin it because he thinks that would make more sense. Still if he is unreasonably jealous then nothing you say or do will change his mind and in that case this relationship doesn't have a future. Sorry.
  • His behavior is inappropriate. He has no business going through your cell phone. He need to respect others self space. You may need to let him go. Drop him, he is a looser.
  • Definitely, move on!

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