Hey I'm a 17 year old female, And I have thought about it alot and I really want to get a sex change, because I find it will suit me bettter and I am totally inlove with my bestfriend wich is a gay guy. anyone help me, like does anyone know a doctor I can
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You really need to think about it a LOT more, you are wanting it for the wrong reasons. No doctor is going to help you out just because it "suits you better"
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Are you so uncomfortable in a female body that you find it hard to function? Thought not. So stop making light of what you don't understand. find a psychologist. u'd have to see one anyway to get access to a sex change. and what you need is to realize u should never change your body to attract some1 who wouldn't like what's inside anyway. Because if yr friend is gay, he may prefer to touch and interact with male bodies, but he falls in love with a male energy.... And that doesn't come out of a bottle of hormone pills. it comes from within. and if that were the case, you'd have been feeling more along the lines of desolated desperation rather than 'suitability'.
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Im 17 female aswell, I act and dress like a boy abit sometimes, then other times im quite feminine. Im bisexual and things I wouldnt change for anyone. If its what you want for you, I couldnt imagine what its like to want to be so different. I think it would tear me up inside. I suggest as hard as it is to talk to your family - they will without a doubt support you (they cannot expect you to live life they way you are) then look for the best surgens and make sure its safe. I support you 100% as long as its for you and not for your bestfriend, having a sex change doesnt guarentee that he'll want you or be attracted to you. I wouldnt be suprised if he just wanted to be your friend. x
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have you talked to your guy friend about this? I mean if he is really your friend he shouldnt want you to change into something your not just for him and his physical attractions, and with you both being so young...who knows he may just be going through a phase and may someday want a female again. dont change yourself permantly for someone else your going to have to live with that decision the rest of your life.
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my anser is di u think he wioo love u then ?is it what u think he would want i got a cool anser for u sweety dres up like a boy say the whole week end from the shoes to the shirt if u have large brest rap them up and flaten them out so they are not notice able and get urself a dildo that looks like a real mans cock u can get some one to buy it 4 u say its 4 a joke get one thats flesh color and real looken put it in ur pants and when u are with ur gay eriend tell home that u have somthing to show home and with the lights low on due ur pants and just show hin not all of it but a couple inchwes of it then quickley put it back and see what he says or how he acts and if he truley is gay and he likes cock u will know and if hes ito it then make out and let home play with it and ask to suck it and just be gay with him and see whats up if he truley isnt gay or he dont know what he is hell come to his self fast and if he freaks out well good thing its make belive sweety have fun
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I think you should talk to a psychiatrist. This is a big choice and a big change. You need to examine why you are doing this. Are you completely uncomfortable as a female? Do you buy only men's clothing, never wear make-up, etc? At 17 it is easy to not know who you are and to want to change that. Being in love with a gay may happens. Does not mean you should become a man. You a female who like a man. That's quite normal for a female. The fact that he is gay just means you can't be together. There is a large chance that if you changed your sex you still wouldnt be together. You need to think about the long run. You can be a female one of the guys, and eventually find a guy you love who is straight, without changing your sex. Sex changes are a big step and need to be really thought through and talked about with your friends and a professional and perhaps other people who have had it done. A lot of people who've done it have been male/female from a -very- young age, not just deciding at a teenager because they are in love with a homosexual and like football that it would be a better fit.
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Thailand is the best place to get a sex change. Their doctors are very experienced.
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Everyone wants what they can't have. Yes it would make your life easier to try to live your dream of being with this perfect gay guy but would he find you attractive as a man? Not all men are pigs, only want sex, only care about sports, and love their cars more than chick flicks. Good men with gay attitudes are out there, true story. Just be 17 and focus on school. Sounds like a lame answer but it's the best answer. When I was 17, I wanted to get married and have kids. I didn't listen to anyone else because it was MY goal. Well it came true and now I can't afford to keep my wife and kids because I never went to school... Don't put the carriage before the horse.
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While you can certainly go through with this, you owe it to yourself to find out a LOT about this procedure and meet people who have been through the surgery. You won't get a real and properly working penis, there is no surgery that can do that. You'll get a little appendage that kind of looks like a penis but doesn't really work. And you'll have quite a bit of pain, and hormone injections for the rest of your life. Your gay friend might well leave you when he decides he wants a real man who can satisfy him, and that kind of leaves you all alone in this world. People who get gender reassignment surgery are rarely "happy" afterward, they are only "less miserable."
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suggest you wait another 2-3 years before you ask this question again. talk to other transexuals before you psyche yourself up for this. you will be in love with another person by then. He may be a guy this time??!!
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I think if you get some councelling youl realize alot more about yourself, no doctor would do this before you see a shrink extensively
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