You should be using birth control if you don't want to become a mother. That is what I think.

I think you should have given more thought to having sex and what it wold mean to you. I am surprised you don't know about birth control or that he didn't know enough about it. But most of all I think you are suffering from guilt and regret and that is why you are worrying so early about being pregnant. Calm down, give it some time and think clearly about this.

First of all, why in the world would you have sex without protection? Secondly, take a deep breath. You shouldn't freak out until you actually miss your period. Stressing about it will only make things worse, and can even cause your period to be late. I'm sure everything will be fine, just don't lose your head just yet.

First of all, you shouldn't have sex at all if you aren't prepared to take care of a child! Secondly, why in the world would you have sex for the first time (after hearing all your life to use protection)and not use a condom. Good luck! What is the world coming to?

Okay, no judgement here. You made a mistake and I think you realize it. Just don't make that mistake gain. So what's your next step? You're probably not pregnant. You still have two weeks until your period starts, so don't start freaking out. When you stress our it can make your period late. If you are pregnant will you please at least get some info about adoption? Maybe talk to someone who has done it? Abortion is not the only solution to an unwanted baby. Good luck.

thanks guys. no this is not BS. i have learned my lesson. and i'm really trying not to lose my cool over this. yes, i do feel regret and i do feel guilty because i acted in an irresponsible matter; at the time i didn't think about the consequences and it is safe to say that is why i am in this position. im just really freaked out. it never should have happened but it. i can't change that and i know that. but honestly guys those of you who are giving me your opinion haven't you ever done anything stupid and regretted it? i really do appreciate your opinions and i am truly grateful for any and all advice you guys can give me. Thank You!

Not going to be judgemental - most of us have done silly things at some point (altho I went on the Pill at 15 - but I have still done silly things). Just chill out until you actually don't get your period. Stress can make it late.

okay im not trying to tell what to do if you are pregnent but really look into adoption cause if you don't want the baby doesn't mean that another family doesn't want your gift from God. Plus its alot harder to live with knowing you killed your baby for your mistake that you made and you don't want that but what you do is up to but i hope you chose to give your baby life.

First of all you do not know if you are...so calm down. Second you will want to get a pregnancy test so you can use that if you don't get your period. You need to make a doctors appointment for two reasons. One, you will need to go if you are pregnant to find out all your options and if you are NOT pregnant you need to go to the doctor to find out your options for BIRTH control. Good luck

I'd say if you are pregnant, abortion is not the smartest or safest alternative. If a pregnancy was unwanted that should have been thought about before the deed was done weather the result of pregnancy was unintended or not. Adoption is another brighter alternative. There are many women who want to adopt and cannot have children of their own, Think about it. Because that is a huge decission.

I would say rather than worrying or planning,go get a pregnancy test.It makes no sence to plan an abortion or worry,after the test then you can decide for yourself if you want an abortion or want a baby in your life or whatever.

I know this is a hard situation.Wait for a couple weeks (since your period isn't supposed to come until then) If it doesn't come and If you think you're pregnant take a test and go see your dr. first to confirm. As for the abortion, It's up to you. you may want to consider having the baby and putting it up for adoption? Don't worry. Everything will work out somehow. It always does, doesn't it? Good luck, honey. If you need to talk to someone, I'd be more than happy to help. <3 Meggie

toobe honest you probably are not pregnant but theres always that chance! forget the pregnancy scare untill you are actually late coming on your period, if you are late then go to your doctors to do a test. if your are start to worry if not-then great! as everyone else has said there are other options-like adoption there is thousands or couples out there desperete to find somebody like you-that made a mistake and is trying to make it right! you might end up being a couple or even a single parent angel! and a baby is the greatest gift if you end up not pregnant then breathe a sigh of releaf and still consult your doctor about the many contraceptions out there that stop unwanted pregnancy and he will help you choose a suitable one! please do not stress out too much untill you know for sure!! take care and let me know :) x

You are probably not pregnant. However, you are 'catastrophizing'(something I do really well and know a little about). You are assuming the worst ..and the possibilities of what to do if the worst (you are pregnant) should happen do you. Sit back and relax.. #1 you do not know if you are pregnant at this time...you won't even even have any indication that it is a possibility for over 2 weeks....#2 You do not have to make any decisions tonight, right now. #3 if you are pregnant then deal with the situation then #4 if you then want an abortion--it is your body and in my opinion your right to do as you wish with it (Note: not everyone shares this opinion) #5 No matter what you decide to do if you are pregnant it isn't most of the world's business..it is a decision that you have to make BUT bear in mind that none of this has actually happened...if it does then cross that bridge when you come to it. Believe it or not this is not the worst thing that can happen to you in life. If you learned a lesson from this, then take the lesson and move on. See your doctor if you cannot control the worrying..I believe it is called Chronic Anxiety Syndrom--and you do not have to feel this way. There are lots of people who will disagree with me on the question..and lots of people who will disagree with you..but in the end..you just have to answer to yourself for this if it comes to that (even if people start throwing God into the equation-this is a private situation between you and your God). I think you'll be okay--but good luck.

First, calm down. You aren't late yet and stressing yourself might cause you to be late. If you aren't pregnant get on birth control, asap. If you are please consider all options before making your descision, talk to someone you trust.

If you are sure you would want an abortion if you are pregnant why are you asking us?

dont get an abortion. its totally wrong. if you cant take care of it put it up for abortion. your the one who didnt use protection. not your baby fault.

why didnt you take the morning after pill? if youre this irresponsible at 20 maybe you shouldnt be having sex. youre also being slightly hysterical about the whole thing as youre not even due on your period for another 2 weeks. wait until you know, then make your own decision, not what strangers on the internet think is best. be more responsible in the future

and also, you should get tested for sti's. you could hiv or anything

I think that's a decision only you can make. Good Luck with that. I do think that if you chose to be sexualy active you should take resposibilty for your body with birth control.

im 18 and i got pregnant. i thought i didnt want the baby so i had an abortion. after that i went into deep deppression. abortion isnt something you can just say your going to get and be perfectly fine with it. Im not saying its a good idea and im not sayin its a bad idea. i jus tink an abortion is something you REALLY have to think about!!! best of luck to you!

hello little late for giving this terrified young women a lecture, what is done is done,she is asking for advice, although you are abosolutely right, she would not be freaking out right if was using protection. Like Gina said there is no use freaking out, till you know for sure, on the other it would be hard not to feel scared about it.If you find out you are pregnant, and really do not want a child, and want to abort get to a councillor or family doctor right away the sooner you have this medical procedure done the less traumatic it would be.I feel bad for any young lady to have to make such a deeply sad decision ......we will cross our fingers and hope for the best for you, that you are not preganate.

1) Relax, calm down 2) Pregnancy test 3) Talk to your doctor/gyno 4) Get on some form of birth control, pills, patches, injections, condom use. 5) If your pregnant and don't want it have the abortion, why put yourself though a pregnancy that you don't want anyway. 6) Learn from your actions and don't repeat them. Twenty and just now losing your virginity, wow.

If you are pregnant, please do yourself and the rest of the universe a favor and get an abortion!! Very few people want to adopt these days with all the fertility methods out there. Besides, the world is already overpopulated. Why would you want to make yourself fat,sick,ugly and miserable only to bring a baby into the world that nobody wants and nobody needs. Sure,I'm with you on this 1, if you're pregnant, get an abortion and don't let anyone tell you otherwise. babies suck!

First, get a pregnancy test to see whether you are actually pregnant. You cannot make any reasonable decisions without the facts. Second, don't ask a bunch of strangers on a website what to do. We have no idea what your values are and what you can live with. If I were in your situation, became pregnant and didn't want the baby I would have an abortion. But I don't know you or what you can live with. As someone else here said, some people go into deep depression and never stop feel guilty if they have an abortion. The other alternative is to have the baby and put it up for adoption. There are lots of great people out there who want a baby. Just make sure you have all of the facts before you decide, and don't allow anyone else to decide for you.

If you think you could not give the baby i good life(not wanted) adoption is an option, but no one really loves an adopted child... do what you really want... but i don't know if your pregnant or not.. take one of them tests