ANSWERS: 4
  • The current boyfriend has no business confronting the ex-boyfriend. It is pretty common for people to be jealous of ex-boyfriends/ex-girflriends, so you have to give your new boyfriend some rope -- but if your new boyfriend is not willing to allow you your ex's, maybe it's time for a new new boyfriend.
  • If I was dating someone who had an ex who was bringing them lunches, I would raise an eyebrow. I don't think I would be too keen on that. If I was having an ex bring me my lunch, I would feel awkward and nervous about how it may cause my current bf to feel. I guess a good question to ask is, if your bf was allowing his ex girlfriend to meet with him and bring him goodies, how would you feel?? If you think it would be fine, maybe you are not into your new guy.
  • whos more important to you? your ex boyfriend...or your current bf? I dont see anything wrong with current confronting ex...if anything, that would be a way for the two men to establish a more comfortable relationship with one another. Your ex cussing him out has of course ruined that possibility! There is nothing wrong with maintaining friendships with ex's..however, when this friendships start interfering with current relationships and moving forward..you may want to question your ex's and your own motives for maintaining a relationship that is part of the past.
  • You seem to want your cake and eat it too. You are disrespecting your current boyfriend by continuing on a relationship with your old BF. It seems you and your old BF have unfinshed business. This is NOT fair to your current BF. I am sure it hurts him very much.

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