How sure were you before you and your partner both agree to divorce? is it normal to have doubts even though you know that the relationship wasnt working? And if you were unsure, did you later regret it?
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Little_Piggy
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My ex-wife and I decided to divorce when I came out of the closet. For obvious reasons. Sometimes I regret it, but for the most part. It has been the best thing for both of us. She has found someone new and he's crazy about her, and I have found someone new also. I'm crazy about him and he for me. So in the long run, it was the best thing for both of us.
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I wasn't sure when she first ask me to leave. But once I found out she was sleeping with my best friend I had no doubt.
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It is normal to have doubts even though you know it is the right decision. Follow your heart and reasoning...and you will be ok. Break ups are very hard..and you will have so many feelings and thoughts..but you know in your heart it is the right thing to do. It will get easier...there is life after a break up. Let yourself mourn the loss...it is a process you need to go through so you can heal. ((HUGS))
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As a two-time divorcee all I can say is....if you have doubt, there is hope that the relationship can be salvaged. As my grandfather used to say, in his broad Lancashire dialect "When in doubt, do nowt". If you haven't done so already, go for couple counselling to a very experienced family therapist. This counselling isn't just about possible reconciliation, it is also about working through the decision process and making the right decisions, and being able to communicate well through and after divorce. Essential if there are children involved. Good luck!!
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