ANSWERS: 4
  • Well if I were him I would have asked you if you kissed him back. Cuz if he didn't kiss him back, that wouldn't actually be cheating. Now if he kiss him back, and did voulunteer in this, then it is cheating. If you did kiss and your b/f left you after you told him that, then I would just you that you be honest with him about it and state all the reasons. The only thing you can do now is wait, maybe he'll come around. However, you be waiting for too long, if he doesn't want to work it out with you, then you should move on and learn from your mistake. Think of how would you have reacted if he told you he kissed another girl!!!!
  • I never kissed the guy back and I told that to my boyfriend, but he didn't care. Also I found out that he was talking and spending time with my best friend behind my back and he bought her flowers and expensive jewlery, but I forgave him and never brought it up. He has been really mean to me and I keep wanting to fix things, but he is just being a jerk about it and telling me that I'm a horrible person and that I don't deserve him and I've been "used." He talks to me like I'm an object, I still love him and want to make things work, but I don't know what to do.
  • If you didn't kiss him back and your b/f does not believe you, then he's acting like a jerk. You did nothing wrong in that case, so you own him nothing.
  • There's not much you can do, I'm afraid. If he left you after one slight indescretion after 6 years, maybe he was looking for an excuse to leave. You're better off without him.

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