Never pressure anyone to do things they don't want to do. You can ask her why she doesn't wish to do these things and see if you can help there . Of course , have you offered to let her use a dildo on your bottom? But in the end , forcing someone to do something they don't want to is called rape.

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It's her choice whether or not she does those things & she has every right to refuse. However, a relationship is a 2 way thing & she could just be being selfish. You need to communicate rather than just feeling rejected & neglected. Ask her why she doesn't give you oral or handjobs & then resolve whatever her issue is with it. Compromising is a good option. For example, instead of asking her to give you oral, suggest doing a 69 - that way you both get to receive! A lot of girls refuse to try anal but she may change her mind in time, although it would be wrong to pressure her into it. If one day she is ready, I'm sure she will let you know.

maybe you should find someone that shows similiar interests....some people are just different but she has to want to......if you're thinkin' that she's just "hiding in a shell" so to speak then~just being open is all you can do otherwise...move on because neither of you will be happy sexually....

im hitting the same problem. ive never had a problem getting head or attention down there, but my girlfriend of 6 months now like refuses to do anything. she expects me to 'get her ready' by going down on her before sex, but she teases me by like kissing down my chest and abs... then laughs. its horrible...lol... and im not about to ask for it. if she wants it, shell do it... otherwise i guess guys like me and you are just screwed. sick sick world.

im hitting the same problem. ive never had a problem getting head or attention down there with other girls so i know its not me, but my girlfriend of 6 months like refuses to do anything. she expects me to 'get her ready' by going down on her before sex, but she teases me by like kissing down my chest and abs... then laughs. it horrible...lol... and im not about to ask for it. if she wants it, shell do it... it is however starting to kinda piss me off because shes told me about her doing it to prior boyfriends and MY last relationship we were all about the mutual oral sex giving, and my newer girl has yet to really even touch me down there with anything other than her vagina. i guess were just screwed. sick sick world.

i think its more the thing that she does not want to get cum in her mouth. i dont. my guy has not gotten head yet. he is waiting for me to be ready and i am happy about that.

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Some girls won't try anal and that one is her choice, but as to the rest? maybe she is just selfish. I had a boyfriend once who loved receiving but moaned any time I asked him to give or do anything but intercourse. He very very rarely did. In the end I just gave up and moved on, since a good sex life is important to me. I had come across one or two men like that so I'm guessing the equivalent exists for women. In the end, I guess there are two possibilities: 1, she is selfish 2, she has a narrow definition of sex and thinks a man should get his pleasure just through straight intercourse. Since she likes to receive, I'm guessing it is option 1... sorry. I think you need to talk to her. Just ask herwhy she doesn't like to do it, and explain what an important part of sex it is for you, that you feel your sex life is incomplete without it. If she thinks she might lose you, she might buck her ideas up. My boyfriend was seeing another woman for a time who point blank refused to do anything for him and expected all the foreplay to be in her direction. I think she thought that was what sex was about - about intercourse, and the other stuff was just to get her aroused. And maybe she thought there was something dirty or demeaning about giving oral sex and handjobs. Anyway, that turned out to be a problem for her because my boyfriend started coming to me for it instead because it was too important to him to miss out on :-)

This worked for me and my husband. It's a step-by-step guide put out by Clint Alexander called "Oral Formula One"....it shows you how to get your wife or girlfriend to give you head on a regualr basis. It's the only program I know of that actually works. Check it out http://www.OralFormulaOne.com