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I guess it depends how much damage the person did to me and my kids. I am not very forgiving when it comes to someone hurting my kids. I would have to be pretty darn sure the person was not going to do it again but still it would depend on what they did... If it was physical with my kids.. absolutly they would not get another chance!
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Definitely be hesitant. Trust is an important thing to me... once bitten, twice shy. I have a really hard time trusting someone who hurt me in the past. Call it wrong if you want to, but every animal's strongest instinct is self-preservation.
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I would forgive the person but i wouldn't give a second chance because i would be afraid of that person hurting me or my children again.
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What a horrible situation for you Jay. I am assuming you have known her for quite some time. You know her better than anyone else. Why not be hesitant, forgive her, but insist that she earn back your trust. Take it slow, don't jump in with both feet until you know the water isn't going to swallow you up. My concern would be your children. I think your first priority is to prevent them from being hurt again, and she should understand that. She needs to earn it and that will be no short term proposition. Best to you my friend.
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THe middle road- Forgive him, allow yourself to work on a friendship with him, allow him to be an occasional part of his children's lives, but don't actually take him back. He lives elsewhere, he does not have dinner with you every night, he can only come over on weekends, and he has to call first and schedule. Give that a try for a while, and then see what happens.
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My Friend this question reminds me off a saying "To err, is human To forgive, is Divine"
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hurt your kids-BYE BYE.......stop waiting for someone-fill your lives (plural) with 1000 other more important things-and then if he is lucky, he will show up and think "damn, this family has it together-i would never do anything to jeapordize my spot in it"
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You have do do what is right for you and your children. If you decide to look for a new guy, be sure he is right before introducing him to your children. They shouldn't be getting close to guys that you are just dating.
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